You need to take action without approaching police or court you can't take any action. You can a file domestic violence case or 498A complaint to take serious action against him.
Mental harassment
I m a married woman from a troubled marriage with two young kids . I met a man through social site , working in a corporate and learned person, became good frnds and entered into a relationship. He lied to me that he was unmarried , later one day his grownup son calledme and i got to know that he is very much married and has a son too. on asking he said it was a forced marriage with his late brothers wife and it is his brothers son, though i decided to leave him there in then but he convinced me that there is nothing in his marriage and asked to be with him,.As i was from similar background i stayed back and we started going strong. Sooner i found he is too obsessed and dominating which i was unable to handle at this age and whenever i tried not to follow him he became very very abusive.Each time he dropped to a new low in abusing me and everytime when i tried to walkaway from this relation understanding the fact that i cant be with someone so obsessed dominant and abusive , he started threatninh me to expose me in front of my family n kids. He harrases me 24*7 and i cant do anything in fear of getting my image tarnished in front of my family kids and collegues.Manier times he threatned to come at my place and meet my mother and tell her everything and he actually came but thankfully didnt tell anything.He keeps me in fear and abuses me all the time with dirty things, wat hurts me most is when he gets angry he says cheap things about my young daughter and my old mother too.He drops to such low level that at times i also loose my temper and react with wrong words over which he drops even lower.All the time he is torturing me by calling several times in my offce and my mom and other ppl...mskes me so scared tells me he will expose me that i m s wrong lady....i really dont know wat to do bcoz if i.complain in police he will get irritated and he will openup personsl stuff to tarnish my image.....i m really very very tensed feel like killing myself to get out of this situation...please guide me
Asked 6 years ago in Criminal Law
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you cannot sit idle enduring such tortures or aggressive attitude of the undeserving person.
At one stage you have to decide ignoring the social status or the reputation or respect in the society because your safety comes first.
You inform your mother about this relationship and take her support and after that you may lodge a criminal complaint against him for his tortures, intimidation and threats.
You can also issue a legal notice to him warning him about his abusive and aggressive attitudinal behavior with you and instruct him to refrain from indulging in such illegal activity against you or else to face legal consequences
You have to rise up now or you will never gather courage to confront him in future.
File poluce complaint against your lover for criminal intimidation under section section 506 of IPC
2) you can also file suit seek restraint order restraining him from contacting you in any manner
See in such relationship you have to option you can walk away from.him and can give police NC for intimidation abuse and cheating see also for rape if he obtained for consent for physical relationship on ground of false promise and false facts.
Also give NC donot give FIR police may talk it out and by there counselling he may in dear not further harash you.
Without fear complain to police about blackmail and exploitation. Situation is reach to worse, no hope of improvement, now thing will went on worse and lastly have take same decision so ripe time now. Just complain that he promised to marry you and shown himself unmarried. So you were looking for divorce but later it was informed by his son that he is married. From that day he is blackmailing to continue relation otherwise will defame you in family and society.
Police will warn him sternly, hopefully things will stop from here. Still he repeated than have t face the reality and file FIR. His carrier will finish and he will land to jail.
Next time record her blackmail and abuses - good proof.
Tell him directly not to contact you anymore otherwise you shall make police complaint against him.
Forget about the past. Keep your mobile off for some days.
If he again tries to contact you go to police and complain.
This is the only remedy.
You have to make yourself strong to come out of his trap of torture and abuse.
Then talk to your family about your relationship with that man and how he is using you by blackmailing to expose you.
They will surely support you.
Then lodge an FIR against that person for rape by threatening and blackmailing it will definitely teach him the lesson for life.
Just go straight to the Police and file a complaint against him.He is taking advantage of your fear of getting defamed, but he will keep blackmailing you even if his demands are fulfilled.
Dear Madam,
There are several enactments in favor of married women. You must show heat of the litigation to your husband otherwise you cannot sustain in such unbearable atmosphere. You can file Domestic Violence case.
file Domestic Violence case seeking following reliefs:
PRAYER
HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS
- to take cognizance for the offence punishable u/s 498A IPC and punish Respondent1 to 3 as per law and extend police protection to the deponent,
- Pass orders u/s 19, based upon S.17, granting separate residence for herself and her three children at a monthly rent of Rs. 20,000/- and advance of Rs. 5,00,000/-.
- Pass orders u/s 18, in totality against Respondent1 to 3,
- Pass orders u/s 20(i) granting Rs.25,000/- per month as maintenance for applicant and maintenance at the rate of Rs. 5,000/- each per month to her three children.
- Pass orders granting Rs. 5,00,000/- for setting up house hold requirements, in granted residence, to make it livable, as the applicant cannot return to the house of Respondent1 as he is residing in the house of respondent No. 3, which is legally prohibited,
- Pass orders granting litigation expenses of Rs.1,00,000/- as the applicant made to wander from pillar to post for getting legal aid to attend the Hon’ble Court, whereas, the Respondent1 falsely filed Divorce Petition.
- The applicant also filed interim application supported by affidavit u/s 23(1) and (2) of D.V.Act,
- That any other order/s, this Hon’ble Court deems fit, to meet the ends of justice, be passed.
