it is your call . if for sake of your son you want to compromise then go ahead 

2) if you dont want to stay with her then continue with your divorce petition 

See at later stage she can implicate you in cases so it is better to record all thing regarding adultery and false cases then it should be compromised and cases should be withdrawn, further if you want to continue your marital relationship with her then only withdraw divorce otherwise as you have evidence seek divorce on the ground. 

Husband wife daily  married life activities can not be put into any bindingness by some sort of compromise agreement putting some condition therein. It does not enjoy any legal force due some legal limitation imposed by law itself.

Further marriage is religious alliance not a commercial contract. It works on the principle of mainly faith and trust. 

Law would no way come to help in leading a normal happy married life. It can give either party some economic protection and physical safety.

so based on this you should decide on the issue of compromise with your wife.

Hi

The word "Compromise" means forgoing some of your conditions i.e., WIN-WIN situation.

If you make up your mind as to join / separate with her, suggestion can be given.

No.1 - Compromise,  you need to trust your wife and lead a normal life post compromise.

No.2 - Fighting  Cases, it cannot be said as to when the cases will be closed, as such, you need to take the call.

*  To avoid any kind of apprehension / doubt, it is better to fight the cases and get the matter decided through court of law.

** Once the adulterous life of partner is found, always the apprehension will be there at the back of the mind. What eve she does you will have doubt as to her character, as such, better go for separation. 

Good Luck.

It depends on you if you feel like settling you can ask well as you can't fight the case also

After 17 years of marriage, divorce will not a good solution, You can give a try, Withdraw divorce with the liberty to file afresh in needed on same ground and ask the wife to submit in court that accepted her adultery and apologist and wants to resume with you. 

Or get acceptance from her that she committed adultery, apologist and no repetition. Also take from her that all cases filed by her were on false allegations. .

If you want to do compromise then do it.

If she is ready for compromise and withdraw her cases and also gives an assurance that she will not indulge in any extra marital affairs henceforth, you can give another chance to save your marriage.

Since your marriage is 17 years old,m there is nothing wrong in going for a compromise settlement and withdraw all the cases.

It depends on how you take it up especially if she assures of a better behavior in future.

Dear sir

There is nothing better than a compromise in a family dispute.

But if you contest the cases on grounds of adultery than all the cases can be in your favour. 

It's upto you that what you want from your relationship also keep in mind that future of son depends on your relationship.