1) if borrower is not repaying loan it is for the bank to take recovery proceedings
2) if bank does not take legal action it is bank funeral
3) It's the guarantor's obligation to pay if the debtor defaults or dies.
4) the bank may initiate legal proceedings against the debtor and guarantor simultaneously, or independently.
5)One way to lessen your burden is to ask the borrower to get another guarantor.
6) guarantee given is irrevocable and bank may not permit you to cancel the same
7) you can approach the bank and inform the bank that you want to with draw the guarantee and reasons for same . bank will call upon borrower to arrange another guarantor . only after getting a new guarantor will bank discharge you from liability