I have very different case where I don't have inter course with my wife even after 3 years of my marriage. She just avoids me giving different reasons when I asked her to do so. Society is believing that I am impotent and hence we don't have children till now. When her parents contacted my parents through a third party to settle this issue, she said that she is willing to stay with me and agreed to bare children. But in the course of time it didn't happen as she is behaving like earlier as she is unwilling to do inter course. When my parents and well wishers asked her about this, she just replies that she likes me a lot. I really don't have any answer for her behavior. If this behavior continues, I may not have children and so our family don't have a heir. I am aged 31 now and wanted to file a divorce. Please suggest me how to proceed and if any compensations will be levied on me for filing a divorce.
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file for divorce on grounds of mental cruelty
2) wife refusing to have sex amounts to mental cruelty and is ground for divorce
3) enclose audio recordings , copy of messages exchanged with her to prove your case
Dear Sir,
Denial of Sex to Husband for long time without any sufficient Cause amounts to Mental Cruelty; SC grants Divorce [Read the Judgment]...
A Supreme Court bench comprising of Justice S.J. Mukhopadhayaya and Justice Prafulla C. Pant, in a judgment delivered yesterday, upheld dissolution of marriage between the parties, on the grounds of denial of sex as amounting to mental cruelty....
The Court observed, “Undoubtedly, not allowing a spouse for a long time, to have sexual intercourse by his or her partner, without sufficient reason, itself amounts mental cruelty to such spouse. A Bench of Three Judges of this Court in Samar Ghosh vs. Jaya Ghosh (2007) 4 SCC 511 has enumerated some of the illustrations of mental cruelty.”
The following answers are help you:
Ans: The following judgments of SC gives you an idea about this.
Ans: Some circumstantial evidences, WattsApp/SMS messages are sufficient.
Ans: Court is always NEUTRAL.
ANS: It depends upon the case you can prove it by oral statements or WattsApp/SMS messages. Recordings etc.,
Ans: Court always presumes in favor of husband because man is more towards the sex whereas the woman is less towards the sex. Court never believe that husband denied the sex but it can believe vice versa, it is universally accepted phenomena. The is as follows.
You should file divorce immediately under Hindu Marriage Act.
Absence of intercourse os a ground for divorce and amounts to mental cruelties.
If your partner is intentionally not allowing you to have sexual relationship them also you have a good ground for divorce.
Hi madam/sir, I don't have any proof about the denial of having sex from my partner. Only proof I have is a doctor prescription as I took her to the hospital as she complained about back ache before inter course. Doctor has prescribed medication for 1week and asked to meet again if the pain persists. We met the doctor the following week as the pain increased after using medications. Later I talked to the doctor and he suspected that my wife is lying. I have informed her parents about the situation and they asked me to send her home for the treatment. There they followed some traditional treatment (Mantras) to subside the pain and she got relieved immediately after 3 days. This is a kind of many instances I have faced in these 3 years after my marriage. Please suggest me how to face this in the court.
you need to prove allegations that wife refused to have sex
2)if you dont have call recordings , messages it would be difficult to prove your case
3) you can rely upon doctor prescription
Which happens within four wall of room can not be proved directly by evidence or witness. Contradiction of statement of both parties and probable reasons for such denial on part of one spouse alongwith other relevant facts and circumstaces during that space of time would only be the key consideration for court to come to a conclusion as to the truth with a reasonable degree of probability.
See you can file divorce on ground of cruelty no physical relationship from wife amounts to cruelty and further you can file a contested divorce under hindu marriage act on this ground.
See since there cannot be strict proof of same you can file a affidavit stating all.this in your divorce coraborating it with doctors report and other documents.
Respected sir...
Desertation is itself a ground for divorce and she had deserted you for a long time of three years sir there is very simple solution for that make a call to her in that ask to her that what is my fault that you are not allow me to be intimate with you in that she will herself recipe and admit all the things.... You need not to work and that recording will work for you..
Thank you
you need to decide the same that if she is not willing to cohabit like wife then should file for divorce on grounds of cruelty
Dear Sir,
The oral evidence is sufficient. No need of evidence.
oral evidence. spoken testimony given by witnesses in court, usually under oath.
The law of evidence, also known as the rules of evidence, encompasses the rules and legal principles that govern the proof of facts in a legal proceeding. These rules determine what evidence must or must not be considered by the trier of fact in reaching its decision.
You can file a contested divorce case on the grounds of cruelty and non consummation of marriage.
The compensation or maintenance will depend on her claim and upon proving your income with substantial documentary evidences.
You don't have to prove non consummation of marriage with documentary evidences only.
You can make the pleadings in the divorce petition and argue on it to convince the court, let she deny your allegations.
The court will decide after hearing both the sides.