the charge sheet has been submitted in Court and charges not framed yet, and you moved an application for discharge, RIGHT?
1 & 2 the trial Court won't discharge you, you have to approach the High Court for quashing the FIR and you will require an affidavit or even personal appearance of your wife here,
practically the trial courts won't discharge in 498a cases and use to take evidence and upon witness turn hostile acquit the accused but the whole process took 2-3 years, therefore approaching the HIGH COURT would be a good and speedy process,
3, 4,5,6,7 in Mutual consent divorce you both will sign an MOU and all the terms and conditions will be mentioned in said MOU, the family court will give you the next date of exactly 6 months and you both will again appear on next date and statement will get recorded and the Court will allow the petition and grant a decree of divorce.
means Mutual Consent Divorce requires a time of at least 6 months, therefore, I suggest you make part payment on first motion (on the day of filing mutual consent divorce petition) and balance payment on the second motion,
think, what if you make full payment and she refused to record the statement on the second motion? this is my concern, being a legal expert.
the MOU, as well as statement recorded before the family court, contains everything which you wants to record.
you can make payment through any mode like DD, Bank Transfer, Cheque, online, wallet, etc
8. you are advised to get the MOU drafted from one experience lawyer to avoid any future complications as MOU is the most important part of any divorce proceeding,
in addition, as advised earlier, I again repeat, make part payment on first motion and balance payment on the second motion,
also after filing the MCD petition approach the HIGH COURT for quashing the FIR