• My friend's family tensions were a Stop Crisis Management Centre for Women (OSCMCW)

I am living separated from my husband since April, 2016 and not in contact with him. I was married in May, 2015 (Arrange marriage registered under Hindu Marriage Act) .
 After few months of my marriage, I found that the educational qualification and occupation of my husband which was told to me and to my family was fake. I found that my husband is only 12th pass and jobless while in biodata emailed to us he stated that he is MTech from Stanford University and working in MNC. 
Anyways I came back to my home and didn't filed any case. i started my business startup with my ex boyfriend who was already married since 2014 (Hindu Arrange Marriage) . Gradually we are now again more than good friends and running our office well. 

Now, Wife of my friend have filled a complaint against my friend blaming for adultery (engaged with me) and domestic violence in APRAJITA CENTRE JAIPUR (Aparajita- One Stop Crisis Management Centre for Women (OSCMCW) located at Jaipur Rajasthan 
Now APRAJITA centre Counsellors ringed me on my mobile and asked me and my father to face his wife and family in joint meeting. I don't want to face all APRAJITA PEOPLE AND HIS WIFE. 
Do APRAJITA People have power to send police at my home if I don't respond to their call.
How can I skip this APRAJITA Proceedings as it will defame me badly and give me and to my father TensionS? 
How am I a criminal that APRAJITA people are saying that if I will deny attending their meeting, they will send Police at my Home?
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu

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Yes they do have the power to summon you.

These center have been established for this purpose of resolving the crisis situation of a woman.

There is no problem in appearing before them as they will jist conduct mediation session and will try to resolve the dispute (if any).

If however you do not wish to go get in touch with some local lawyer who may appear for you on the first date.

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Anilesh Tewari
Advocate, New Delhi
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Aprajita center is non governmental organization, if they are threatening your family and defame, you can file criminal and civil defamation case in your jurisdiction court.

You can also approach the Police station of your jurisdiction and file complaint against ngos u/s 499 ipc.

Ngos dont have any power to send police or arrest to anyone.

Mohammed Mujeeb
Advocate, Hyderabad
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1) Its govt social organizations formed for women's help, you better go and face their all questions and answers them that her husband is just your business partners and not more than this.

2) If you have any more staff in your business or client or best friend you can take them as evidence if you are afraid of taking to your father.

3) Better you attend this call and deny all false allegations are made on you by your colleague's wife.

If you require any further assistance do call us.

Ganesh Kadam
Advocate, Pune
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267 Consultations

1) no case of adultery is maintainable against you

2) law regards lady as victim

3) further no case of domestic violence is maintainable against you as there is no domestic relationship

4)no harm in attending meeting

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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8173 Consultations

1. No, it is a NGO kinf of body which i service of reconciling differences between two married couples. It can only mediate in the dispute but can not adjudicate it.

2. If due to your closeness with your ex his marriage s put on rocks then you better visit the place and try to resolve the dispute. Since your name is linked with him largely with your consent as well then you can not escape from the all probability of facing dis-reputation.

Ignore the threat of APARAJITA as they can not send police.

Anyway do not take the plea of breaking of your marriage to get involved with this man and break his marriage as well.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
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Answerd by Adv kavery Anand Bangalore.. dear client

1) Ur husband gave u false information while marring u .. and u have that proof that he is just 12th . And No job ..

2) u started business with Bf ..and his wife filed case against u ..if she has proof that u r more then a friend to her husband.. then it will be tuff for u .. if she doesn't have any proof then give statement that u r just known friends and running business...and go and attend datesand calls .. don't miss any dates.. otherwise police my come to u ..

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Kavery Anand Pandharpurkar
Advocate, Bangalore
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They have with help of police power to register the complaint against you under the adultery as the Aprajita is government of rajasthan initiate for women to provide medical legal, police help to harassed women.

See since in adultery women cannot be charged for the abatement of adultery you cannot be charged or trial for the offence of the adultery, though against her husband FIR can be logged, against you no FIR police action can be taken.

Further i would not suggest skipping it better then that you can appear and settle as further if issue goes in court she can make you party in divorce proceeding on adultery ground and that will further tarnish your image.

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
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179 Consultations

At best your husband needs to show-up at the APRAJITA Centre to ensure that he participates in the counselling sessions with her wife. His failure to so participate, will result in launch of criminal case against him.

Not at all necessary for you to attend any session at APRAJITA. Engage a local lawyer to clear your stand.

You cannot even be booked on adultery charges.

Vibhanshu Srivastava
Advocate, Lucknow
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323 Consultations

Dear,

No APRAJITA people has power to send police.

But in my view you can consult with local lawyer and go with him

and resolve all the allegations levied over you.

No case maintainable on you.

File defamation against her.

Tarun Agarwal
Advocate, Jaipur
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3 Consultations

Dear Client,

First of all, OSCMCW is NGO not an administrative govt. body, so relax. You can straight away deny their invitation and make them clear on phone, complain is false. Except business relationship, nothing else is cooking.

His wife in vindictive filed false complain.

No role of police, even though you have not committed any crime. Even if you are engaged with your X , no criminal offense.

On the contrary, you can complain against them for police threat.

Yogendra Singh Rajawat
Advocate, Jaipur
23085 Answers
31 Consultations

Aprajita or any such N cannot send police to your house.

The police are not under their control.

The police will look into the complaint given to them directly and not by such calls.

If they call you once again you may inform them that they av no business to call you and if at all she has any grievance against you, let she file a case through court, you will face her in the court properly.

She cannot file any cs in this regard against you nor against her husband also, because there is no provision in law for that,

Hence you may relax and await her next move to counter it properly.

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
90291 Answers
2513 Consultations

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