As my parents are aged and living 150 kms from the place where my kid resides; how i can take the kid to show them atleast once in a month( My parents could not file a separate case as they can’t attend the court due to their in ability and age)
If there is no specific permission from court to take the child to your parents place, any act done this way shall prove fatal to your case, she may file a cancellation petition to cancel the visitation rights for breach of conditions.
In fact she may object to your parents visiting the child in the place where you are permitted to visit your child because visitation rights have been granted to you alone and not to your prents also.
So dont venture into any such fancy ideas to get your privileges deprived.
Where i have to file for the Joint custody or shared parenting?( High court or District court which issued me the previous orders)
Since this child custody case is not disposed yet, there is an order only agaisnt the visitation rights, you may continue the same case in the same court, get it disposed, and if the decision is not in your favor then you may prefer an appeal before high court.
I came to know that they are going to appeal against divorce in high court as well as they might appeal to cancel for this visitation too? ( what is should do to stop them to get any say on the visitation order)
You can challenge their moves legally on merits in your side.
Do i have to go for modification in the district court which gave order or i have to appeal to get the shared or Joint custody?
This is an order in the IA you have filed seeking visitation rights, if you are aggrieved by this order you can prefer a revision before the high court for modifying the order.