Dear friend,
Advise can be given, but can you implement it. Listen. First get your mothers name inserted in all official records and LIC, PF etc., as legal wife and 100 percent nominee. Second wife has no right in the property except for some maintenance. Since your father is a government servant, you mother can book him and his second wife for bigamy offence. Without the consent of your mother your father cannot adopt a female child. It is left to you either to accept her as adopted child or deny her status. You have all rights over the property of your father after his death only. So be wise and nice with him to get nomination of your mother in all official records. I know Telugu, it is my mother tongue. Please call me for more suggestions. Good Luck.
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Section 494 in The Indian Penal Code
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494. Marrying again during lifetime of husband or wife.—Whoever, having a husband or wife living, marries in any case in which such marriage is void by reason of its taking place during the life of such husband or wife, shall be punished with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to seven years, and shall also be liable to fine.
(Exception) —This section does not extend to any person whose marriage with such husband or wife has been declared void by a Court of competent jurisdiction, nor to any person who contracts a marriage during the life of a former husband or wife, if such husband or wife, at the time of the subsequent marriage, shall have been continually absent from such person for the space of seven years, and shall not have been heard of by such person as being alive within that time provided the person contracting such subsequent marriage shall, before such marriage takes place, inform the person with whom such marriage is contracted of the real state of facts so far as the same are within his or her knowledge.