• DV case against me and my and parents on false grounds, for Money

Hi,
i am in situation, where my wife filed as domestic violence() case under dv act, 2005 against me, my parents.
Where she said that after the marriage i abandoned her and left her with my parents, in my native and came alone here in bangalore, with out her. she stated that my parents started mentally harassing her and in aug 2017 she is admitted to hospital in icu in her place in maharashtra, she produced the bill, not the detailed report of her hospital admission. 
Now in this context , 
- she is demanding 40 lakhs and 10 lakhs from my parents, stating that i earn 20 lakhs and my father who is retired is getting pension of 1 lakhs , which is false.
- she also said that before marriage i made a sexual relationship with her after engagement, which is false ( becus i was in bangalore and she was in pune, i just met her two time, that too for 2- 3 hours by going to pune to see the girls and the before engagement to buy her ornaments since she was telling me i cant come to nagpur as she wont get leave from company ).
- she is also saying that she need a flat in pune, as a compensation along with money.
- she is also demanding that all there property should be locked to sales and should get her consent
- she is also demanding all the relatives of my should not come across her at 100 meter ,(why we will contact her and send our relative)
- she is also saying that in mutual divorce me and my parents forced her , but she was not staying with us at all, no me and my parents , since i stay in bangalore and my parents in nagpur.

Now what can i do to squash the dv case, and how can i counter fir her.

- i have flight tickets , as an evidence 
- her father audio , where he is forcing me to get divorce
- she was not communicating with us in any instance but her father was a middle man who did all this situation, her using her shoulder to fire a bullet

- she is mba and i am be engineer still they saying that they where tricked and not read the mutual doc and dont know she can ask for money , but cousellor while mutual concent asks for alimony.
- she said in first motion that she want divorce as we are not compatible with each other.
- after that she and her father asked me to sold my scooty which i gave as a gift to her after 15 days of marriage, and i sold it and transferred the money to her account via buyers account, i have the copy of audio and transaction slip with me ,as scooty was in my name 
- as soon as they got the 45000 money, with in 1 week she sent the legal notice from lawyer demanding 30 lakhs of money, we gave her reply on that notice, and said she can withdraw her consent but with her own risk as i am not responsible and agreed on such amount of money,
- when in second motion , she said that i want divorce also and money to the cousellor.can i get the counselling copy and will it help me to counter dv case.
- now in jan 28 , she filed the DV case against me and my parent , as stated above with demands.
Asked 6 years ago in Family Law
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1.Your wife and in laws are not trustworthy persons at all and hence do not negotiate wit them at all.

They would cheat once again.

2.Fight the case on merit and refuse to give divorce under any circumstances.

3.Once you give an impression of a long battle without any effort for negotiation they would blick and would come forward for settlement and then settle at your own terms or on convenient ters.

4. Do note in such martial dispute litigation the more a husband becomes ready for a long battle the lesser is the mount for amicable settlement. No wife becomes ready for long battle and hence becomes desperate in such situation and gets ready to settle as much lesser price than originally demanded.Take my words.

All the best.

Devajyoti Barman
Advocate, Kolkata
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You should contest the Dv case, all the evidence should be bought before the court.

Once the applicability of the Code of Criminal Procedure has started on account of any judicial order passed by the learned Magistrate including issuance of notice either under Section 12 or 18 or 19 or 20 or 21 or 22 or 23 or 31 of the DV Act independence unde crpc.482 high court can be approached for quashing of complaint.

Kindly refer the judgement of Gujarat High Court on the issue http://www.livelaw.in/complaints-under-domestic-violence-act-can-be-quashed-invoking-section-482-crpc-gujarat-hc-db/

Shubham Jhajharia
Advocate, Ahmedabad
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179 Consultations

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1) refuse to bow down to wife extortion tactics

2) file detailed reply denying allegations made in DV case

3) DV cases take 5 years to be disposed of

4) your wife has no rights on property standing in your parents name

5) no need to pay her Rs 40 lakhs demanded by her

Ajay Sethi
Advocate, Mumbai
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5.0 on 5.0

Hi, there is no need to pay huge alimony for mutual divorce, however you can negotiate with her with a reasonable one time alimony and withdrawing of all cases .. If she do not agree with the alimony, it is advisable to file for quashing of 498 A in high court and obtain stay on proceedings till final decision of petiton.. You can get back to me for further doubts,, thank you

Hemant Chaudhary
Advocate, Gurgaon
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What to do if a False Domestic Violence and Dowry case is registered against you

If a false complaint is registered against you by your wife, you have two options – either to defend your case and wait for the judgement or to file a counter case against your wife and prove her wrong. Both are detailed below.

Defensive

You can defend yourself and your family from being sent to jail because of the false complaint. You have following options to defend your family and yourself-

Collect as many pieces of evidence as possible

Record all conversations (voice, chat, email, letters, etc.) with those threatening and keep the originals in a safe place. It is advised not to produce the original evidence before anyone.

Collect evidence to prove that you have neither demanded dowry nor have taken it anytime.

Collect evidence to prove that she moved out of the bond of marriage for no valid reason.

This evidence will be fruitful in the time of getting anticipatory bail or notice bail from the court.

Safeguard your Family

There are hundred of cases where the whole family is put behind the bars just because of one false complaint. Section 498A has a very wide jurisdiction under which the women can complain against anyone in the family. Even the mother and the father of the husband are not immune. In such a situation the husband can do the following to safeguard his parents and other family members –

Once the FIR is lodged, the man can apply for anticipatory bail or notice bail so as to ensure that the innocent family members are not going behind bars without any just cause.

How the case turns out would totally depend on which state the case is lodged. Different states have different mechanisms to deal with the problems of false cases.

For example, in Delhi, Punjab, Haryana and Rajasthan the complaint would first be referred to CAW Cell (Crime Against Women Cell)/ Mahila Thana). Where attempts would be made for Settlement between husband and wife. And if no settlement is reached, the case would be converted into FIR. At this stage or even before, you can seek Anticipatory Bail or Notice Bail for all your family members to protect them from arrest.

In Uttar Pradesh/ Uttranchal, the FIR would be promptly registered but you would get 30 days to settle the case in mediation centre. By which time most people obtain stay on the arrest from High Court.

In Bihar/ Jharkhand, the situation is very bad, people are arrested without verification, and also getting Anticipatory Bail is very difficult.

Complaint about blackmailing, false allegations

Lodge a complaint to your nearest police station, detailing about blackmailing, her false allegations, and her unbearable behaviour. Request in your complaint that police should take necessary actions to stop her from making threats and abuses immediately, also tell the police verbally and in writing along with available evidence that you are facing blackmailing and threats and mental torture from your wife and/or her family, as the case maybe. Filing such a complaint early on can save you from a lot of trouble later on if you are the first one to file this.

Drawback of this move

Police don’t easily write down the complaints of men. Also, how the complaint is drafted is critical. This is why consulting a lawyer with experience in such matters before approaching the police is a good idea. Get your complaint drafted by a trial lawyer if possible. If police the refuse to register the complaint, seek the help of a lawyer again. They will be able to make the police register the complaint.

What I suggest in such circumstances

If the police reject to file your complaint you can write a complaint letter and send the same to the SP/commissioner as the case may be and get a “receiving copy” of the complaint.

If the police refuse to give you a receiving copy, you can send the complaint to the police station by registered post. The acknowledgement of which must be kept safe with you.

Police have a higher chance of acting on your complaints after this.

One of the common mistakes the victims of a false 498A complaint do is to try to manage the whole matter on their own and not involve any legal expert in the issue. This often leads to damaging their own case. So, it’s always better to engage a legal expert such as a lawyer to advise you on the matter and if possible do the leg work as well. A lawyer will surely understand the matter better than you.

File RCR (Restitution of Conjugal Rights)

If your wife has left your place after all the blackmailing and threatening, you can file RCR (Restitution of Conjugal Rights) mentioning the conditions that she should agree on before she starts living with you again.

Do not enter into a Settlement with your wife

If you have to compromise, do it without paying any money. By paying her money you will indirectly accept the blackmailing and guilt. Your act will encourage fraudulent women to do more blackmailing.

Despite all this, if you decide to pay and compromise then do not pay all the money till High court or Supreme court have given the final order of compounding the IPC 498A and all offence including the divorce decree. This is where your lawyer’s role in negotiations will be critical. You should get the settlement conditions agreed by both parties in writing (in the same agreement) including her and her family members. Also get them to file A court statement under IPC-156 that they will not challenge this order in higher courts and that they will take back all the cases filed against you and all your relatives in all the courts. They should get the final instalment of money after all cases and proceedings are withdrawn and closed.

Raise the issue of false complaint

Start writing letters to the media, human rights organizations, etc, telling them about the misuse of Section 498A. Use social media platform for reaching the mass. This will not give you legal relief but bring the attention of the society toward the misuses of the law.

http://www.pmindia.gov.in/en/interact-with-honble-pm/ – here you can submit your complaint to the Prime Minister of India.

OR

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New Delhi – 110011

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Offensive

To make your case stronger and to expect an earlier settlement, you can file counter cases against your wife. Below is a list of counter cases you can file to strong your case. But for this purpose, you will need an advocate to represent you, though it should be in your knowledge as what remedies you have or what counter cases you can file against your wife.

Sec 120B Indian Penal Code, 1860 – Punishment of Criminal Conspiracy – You can file a case against your wife alleging that she is conspiring to commit a crime against you.

Sec 167 Indian Penal Code, 1860 – Public servant framing an incorrect document with intent to cause injury – If you believe that the police authorities are helping your wife in making false complaint and framing incorrect documents you can file a case against them alleging their false framing of documents.

Sec 182 Indian Penal Code, 1860 – False information, with intent to cause public servant to use his lawful power to the injury of another person – What usually happens is that the public servant in his power does something which might not be the true, in short, a false information is circulated so as to depress the evidence.

Section 191 Indian Penal Code, 1860 – Giving false evidence – If you suspect that your wife or anybody is presenting false evidence against you in the court of law or police station, you can file a case alleging that the evidence which are being used to prosecute you are false, which consequently make the whole charges false.

If you need any further help do call me by selecting consultation call.

Ganesh Kadam
Advocate, Pune
12928 Answers
255 Consultations

4.9 on 5.0

Dear Sir,

Nothing to bother. Everything will end smoothly provided you have some patience. Her DV proceedings are after thought proceedings and can be easily get quashed by High Court. She is highly educated and she is entitled for only monthly maintenance. You can provide it by getting PG Center in Bengalore City and she should reside here only. She cannot enjoy your money sitting in her parents house. So many issues are there which untouched in family law. I will enlighten you if you could come to my office which is in Bengaluru.

Kishan Dutt Kalaskar
Advocate, Bangalore
6136 Answers
487 Consultations

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My asking only any amount is not allowed by the court before having any maintenance amount Court examination all the documents and evidence is available including the financial documents to decide the actual amount of element simply by demanding a flat or any other amount that cannot be by the court even if your father is a pensioner yes nothing to do with any alimony in this regard if there is any domestic violence case against him an appeal under section 482 quasging the FIR in the High Court maybe done.

Vimlesh Prasad Mishra
Advocate, Lucknow
6852 Answers
23 Consultations

4.9 on 5.0

The best way out of this matrimonial dispute is to settle this matter.

Engage a lawyer on your behalf and moot a compromise before your's wife's family.

In case you are not up for a compromise, you will have to contest the DV case instituted by her.

File a reply to her complaint that she must have filed under section 12.

File all the evidence in the Court that is in contradistinction of her allegations.

Vibhanshu Srivastava
Advocate, Lucknow
9600 Answers
303 Consultations

5.0 on 5.0

If you want to file a quash petition to quash the DV case, you may approach high court with all the documentary evidences and merits in your side.

In general high courts do not entertain the quash case so easily and they may direct you to face the proceedings in the trial court itself.

In my opinion, the facts what you have stated may be taken up during trial proceedings and during cross examining her so that you can be assured of a positive result in this

T Kalaiselvan
Advocate, Vellore
84896 Answers
2190 Consultations

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