My ex boyfriend has been harassing me and forcing me to get married to him. I was in a relationship with him for 3 years and loved him till the time he started misbehaving and shouting and fighting with me and my family all the time. I tried a lot to change him but he didn't change and his behaviour worsened with time. He forced me not to work anywhere as he is rich. My family fixed our marriage which I had to call if because of his behaviour as he always forced me to get intimate with him and if I didn't he tried blackmailing me that he will make my life hell as he is very rich, he will finish my career and spoil my entire life. He calls and threatens m mother daily saying that he will never let me go and marry me anyhow. Whenever I tried to contact police he said he will bribe them and ask them to file a complaint against my family. I planned to shift from the city so he said he will track me from anywhere and everywhere and come back to scare me and will never leave me. He comes to my area and abuses me publicly and forces me to take a step against him so he can show me what he can do against me. I am from a very simple and humble family and he was the only guy I dated, now I feel very bad to cause all this trouble to my family. He comes to my house forcefully and says I will come here daily and sit inside do whatever you people can to stop me. I am scared of what will happen if he seriously bribes the police and files a complaint against my family. Please help.
I met him when I first joined his company and he was the owner of the company. I left his job within three months because of his nature of fighting, but since I loved him so when he came and cried in front of me and said sorry I immediately forgave him. He again forced me to join his company and once I joined again he started harassing me sexually and forced me not to work in office anymore and only go out with him to hotels to get intimate, i was only 23 when he tried manipulating me and made me think I am doing wrong to him if I am not getting intimate with him and forced me into sex, post this he started saying he has paid me for this as we showed that I go to his office to my family. He stared blackmailing me that if I don't continue this he will tell everything to my family so I continued this quietly and now he says I have used him for money and I owe him a lot of money. He also buoyed me gifts forcefully and now took everything back and humiliating my family that we took so much from him whereas we never did.
1) file police complaint against your ex boy friend for criminal intimidation under section 506 of IPC
2) you cnanot be forced to marry him against your wishes
3) record all his threats
4) install CCTV cameras in the house so that you have video recording of what trasnpired
dont bow down to black mail tactics
2) you are under no obligation to have sex with your ex boy friend
3)you have already returned all his gifts .
4) file police complaint agianst your ex boy friend
1.Do not keep silence anymore at all.I wonder you being a educated lady hoe could you allow him to exploit you so long.
2.Immedoitaly lodge a complaint of rape and seeucal expolitation.If you remeber the hotels then it would be easily proved.
3.Make additional of cheating u/s 417 IPC laos.
This man must be brought to books and for this you must raise your voice.
I am only scared about one thing that he always says he will buy the police and they are in his pockets. He also says he will come out of jail and get me acid attacked or send Gurdas and beat up my family and he will do it in a way that no one can ever figure out it was done by him and my life will be spoiled forever. He says do whatever you want I will never let you get married to any guy ever and if you try doing that I will post your obscene pictures banners in your area. He keeps putting false blames on me of cheating him and makes my mom feel ashamed of having a daughter like me who cheats men for money. All of this is a lie and I have been very true to this guy all the time I was with him. I am very scared of filing a police complaint. He also says he is a psycho and would go to any extent to get me.
1) record his threats
2) when you file complaint of criminal intimidation rely upon video recordings made by you of his threats that he will throw acid on your face / send gundas to assault yopu and your family members
This person is a crook.Do not let this person go scot free.
I have already advised you what to do to seek legal recourse.
So take those measures and stop crying over this issue. Shedding tears is nit going to help you.
1. you should file complaint before the magistrate under section 200 crpc for the offence of stalking punishable under section 454D IPC.
2. when the court takes cognizance of the case it can direct investigation under section 202 crpc then investigation shall be carried on under the supervision of the court.
3. it shall not be easy for him to bribe and mold the case in his favour.
1. if he publish this in public domain he admits his guilt and he shall be punished for the offence of rape only on his admission. no need to adduce another evidence.
2. he is just giving threats, you should be strong and ready to face this case.
I am from a very simple and humble family and he was the only guy I dated, now I feel very bad to cause all this trouble to my family. He comes to my house forcefully and says I will come here daily and sit inside do whatever you people can to stop me. I am scared of what will happen if he seriously bribes the police and files a complaint against my family. Please help
He cannot continuously threaten you or he can say that he will bribe the police to make your life hell.
You should not be afraid of his threats and should first approach police with the help of some elders in your family, give a complaint in writing and get an acknowledgment.
Do not withdraw the complaint even under any pressure.
He is not the law nor he can buy everyone or anyone.
If the local police is not cooperating or responding properly you may approach the higher police officer of the district for intervention and relief.
He stared blackmailing me that if I don't continue this he will tell everything to my family so I continued this quietly and now he says I have used him for money and I owe him a lot of money. He also buoyed me gifts forcefully and now took everything back and humiliating my family that we took so much from him whereas we never did.
You cannot bear everything silently.
You have to stand up and revolt at one stage or else you will not be able to survive and he will cause you more damage.
I am only scared about one thing that he always says he will buy the police and they are in his pockets. He also says he will come out of jail and get me acid attacked or send Gurdas and beat up my family and he will do it in a way that no one can ever figure out it was done by him and my life will be spoiled forever.
You can mention the same thing in your police complaint and also can seek protection from him in the future too owing to his statements.
In your complaint you can mention whatever he told and threatened so that his bail application also will get rejected for the first time, he may not be able to bribe everyone for this.
Once he faces the music of law, he will realise and may become alright.