Wife does not want to continue marriage nor give divorce
Sir,
I got married in Feb 2015 to my partner of 5 years in a live-in relationship which was accepted by both my parents and hers. She stayed with us in our home. She has been divorced once before. This is my first marriage. I am 36 and she is 42. Since August 2016 she has left me and refuses to divulge where or with whom she stays, she cites my drinking as an excuse, which i have not partakena a drop of since one Aug 2016.
I am asking her to either give the marriage one more chance or to file a divorce, but she will do neither. The reason for not giving the marriage another chance being that; her capacity to love me has ended therefore there is nothing she can do about it. She gives no reason for not filing a divorce. As a Husband i am extremely disturbed by her callous answers and to her staying away somehwere without divulging her whereabouts. Since August i have been under deep depression and under medication as result i can neither work nor study, i have a non existent social life because she took me to psychologist and has me believing that i am a schizoid. And as a result i cant socialise.
Please Help me. What are my options. I still love my wife very dearly and i doont want the marriage to break without atleast trying to save it. But at the same time i am unable to deal with her absconding like this. Please note : i know where she works. but i have not ventured to go to her office because it might embaress her.
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu