Since you and your wife have filed for divorce by mutual consent it is in your interest to appear on court at time of second motion and agree for divorce by mutual consent
2) it makes no sense in staying separate without divorce
3) if you have agreed to give custody of children to wife you cannot claim child custody
4) you can withdraw your consent for mutual consent divorce of you so desire
5( wife is at liberty to file DV / dowry harassment case against you but has to prove allegations made in divorce petition
6) you should not have filed petition for mutual consent if wife not willing to grant you joint custody of children or visitation rights