How can I put 481a against my husband who left me 3months back
Dear All
I am from Delhi. I have married my soul mate in Nov 2015. The marriage happened in a Gurudwara in the presence of both our families followed by a lavish party in the night. I am from a Bengali community and to make the family life easy and comfortable my family members spent close to 7L rupees to settled me as the boy barely had anything to spend.
Post marriage he started showing his true color, because my monthly earnings were more than him, he started putting all expenses on him that counts to pay starting from his Car EMI to rentals of the flat. At the same time he continued to leave his personal life at his own terms like going out what his own friend circle and spending money on drinks and in parties.
I had to serve his parents and brother who used to put lots of mental and sometimes physical torture to fulfil their demands.
Situation gone in that stage where I had to consult with the psychiatric to save my family life and job as it was an undesirable situation where I have been forced to stay with him.
3months back without informing me he left my place and started staying separately. I have been waiting since then but recently I came to know from one of my close friends that he is thinking for the separation.
My questions are,
1. How can I go ahead to put divorce case against him?
2. How can I recover the money being spent on the marriage occasion which would be closed to 7L
3. How can I enable 498a as the body marks are now bit old which happened because of the domestic violences.
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu