1) Muslim marriage is a civil contract. The signed Nikahnama is primary, binding evidence that the husband willingly entered into the marriage at that time.
2) If a marriage has been legally solemnized, one spouse can approach the court or the marriage registrar with the Nikahnama, witnesses, or an affidavit to register it. The husband's presence or current "will" is not required to register a past event that he legally consented to when signing the contract.
3) no need to bow down to husband pressure tactics