May I stay in my in-laws home being husband legally
I am having dispute with my wife since initial. Having a son kid 5 years. Total marriage time 6 years. Both having 2nd marriage. Now despite of dispute, my wife stays within my father's ancestral house where I, wife, my father and son stays. Daily querrell happens. And my in laws are not cooperating and saying word to her. So, I only know what I'm going through by seeing my father getting through such trauma daily. As a remedy, I want to stay at my in laws house so they can also come to know how our relation is and what to do next if they also see our disputes and disengagements in small matters in routine life. So, my queries are
1. Can I stay at my in laws house along with my wife inspire they say no. Because if my wife has legal right to stay in in laws house then being other life partner and husband of her, I too can stay at her parents house.
2. Can there be remedy like, staying 15 days at my place and 15 days at her place, in case they don't get agree.
3. In case, they reject both options, then may I by any means go and start staying there.. I mean by police intervene or court intervene.
4. What if I start staying out of my house, in a room, then will my wife be able to force me to stay with her..what if I stop paying her monthly pocket money and keep paying other home routine cost to run their lives....and what if I stop paying all expenses. What can be her reaction. How can I respond.
5. I have given written complaint in police 3 days back, when my father in law used foul language in front of mother in law with in their house when I reached to discuss this issue, but he out rightly rejected and given me death threat. So, what can I do next once police will call both parties to give statements. How can I use this in future in divorce case. Along with this, should I being husband file divorce petition basis mental cruelty and this death threat given by father in law, I don't have proof anyhow. I can just explain.
6. May I go abroad to study and abroad parellel when I file this petition or this complaint related issue is going on.
I have called 100no for police help couple of times and have given written complaint during such disputes in last few months.
Asked 8 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
What should I say to police when they ask me to write 'nivedan' reg my complaint. I don't have any proof. I can only explain the incidence
What will happen next once nivedan of mine is taken.
What should I do parallely in case my wife or in-laws say I did also intimidation in reply to defend.
Should I file divorce petition before this complaint is resolved. Should u send divorce notice right now parallel to this complaint or wait till it gets clear.
Asked 8 years ago
What should I say to police when they ask me to write 'nivedan' reg my complaint. I don't have any proof. I can only explain the incidence
What will happen next once nivedan of mine is taken.
What should I do parallely in case my wife or in-laws say I did also intimidation in reply to defend.
Should I file divorce petition before this complaint is resolved. Should u send divorce notice right now parallel to this complaint or wait till it gets clear.
Asked 8 years ago
Thank u for detailed reply..
1.I don't have any proof. I cnt gather proof. Does that mean I have to continue this failed marriage till she doesn't ask divorce. I tried convincing her many times, but she is not ready stating reason of son future.i believe due to these fights he is not getting raised properly. And my father is also suffering so I want divorce but since she is not ready and i don't have proof of her mental cruelty, so as u said I shouldn't file divorce first . Then please suggest any other legal remedy. Or steps options to make them go for it. M ready to pay maintenance monthly or lunpsum amount along with m ready to keep child even. But they are not ready and increases negotiation price every time so I stopped that point to discuss with them. But now they are dormant.
2.Wife is not allowing sexual relation since2 years. Now how to prove it. We don't talk with each other in home since long and she keeps abusing indirectly while talking with son and father. Using foul language. How to get proof of such small incidences which occur daily and deliberately to pinch me. M tired of this mind game. And ready for alimony for she is not ready. So what should I do.
3. Should I continue with my complaint against her father about criminal intimidation and her mother and brother. How Will this complaint help me to proceed for divorce petition. What music will i have to face in reaction so I can prepare accordingly in my defense.
4. She compared me with her x husband and cried few times. Also all these happend in front of kid and father. Isn't all these are mental cruelty. How can I make her and her parents to come on table to discuss. There are many small things which has impacted my physical, mental, social and economical health badly. Our religious beliefs also doesn't match. I can write on and on but in a nut shell I have mentioned details as best I can explain. Kindly suggest how can I take criminal intimidation complaint further tomorrow in police station for which I don't have proof and also about divorce petition to be filed or not on my own being husband without having proof of her mental harrasment.
Asked 8 years ago