Crooked plays of brothers to get out their own sister from home
Respected Sir, I'm the eldest daughter of my parents. I'm married and living away from them. I have 2 bros. My father died intestate a few months ago. He was a retired officer in an autonomous institution. He had bank deposits including fixed deposits. Our home and properties are registered in his name alone. He has to receive his retirement benefits such as EPF, Gratuity etc which was pending due to certain issues. We are Hindus. As per succession act, my father's legal heirs are my mother, me and my 2 bros. My mother is a govt employee. She is a psychiatric patient and was under medication for more than 10 years. She was on leave till last year as she can't concentrate on her works. She is a lazy-type too. So are my bros. They are lazy. Not even bath daily or do their own daily routines. My elder bro is the crooked one. He started his professional degree 10 years ago & hasn't passed yet. All he wants is to sleep, eat, sitting all the time inside room with mobile ph, to ridicule people above his status etc. My mother joined service last year as insisted by my father to take VRS. My mom can be easily manipulated and can be exploited by crooked people. So my father was staying with her. My bro is very jealous of me. I have good academic qualifications and i work. Friends and relatives honour me not him. Whenever our friends or relatives find illegal activities about him they inform me. I inform these to my father. All these added to his jealousy. After my fathers death my eldest bro is brain washed my mom n younger bro who is very immature. My eldest bro is using my mothers salary accounts and bank accounts. My mother neither know how to use it nor interested to do it by her own. She is satisfied by his activities. Regarding fathers bank deposits, my mother is his nominee and my bro said only the nominee can use it (which means he can operate it fully even if my mother is nominee) and there is no right for legal heirs. I was trying to save my fathers deposits by telling them to start a joint bank act in the name of we four heirs. Now he wants my mom to give some money to me when she opt VRS and want to get out me from that home. He says I'm a married women. No need to give me more money. I wanted a copy of my fathers death certificate n all legal documents. But he objected. He kept all these inside an almara n take key everytime he goes out. This is with my mothers permission. When I asked my mother about this she Said u can check ur fathers documents after one years death ceremony which is not logical. I was really insulted n mentally hurt. I don't kno how many bank acts he had? What he owns, His epf status, etc. I'm helpless. My bro wish to have control in all the money my parents possess. He wants to live without hard working.. He is very crooked and cruel. These things are effecting me mentally n physically. I'm hurt. No place for emotions in my home. What matters is Money only!! Please help to overcome this pathetic situation. Thank you.
Asked 7 years ago in Property Law
Religion: Hindu
Is my bro doing criminal activity? He is suppressing me emotionally. How can I restrict my mother legally so that my bro cant influence her? How can I know about my fathers documents? Do I have the right to see those documents as my bros do? Is it illegal if they want to get me out from the home? Is it illegal if they don't let me to use my fathers car if I'm at home? Is it illegal if they transfer the money to nominee alone? I cant suffer this mental torcher anymore.
Asked 7 years ago
I studied in a Gov't aided state school with very low fees. I entered colleges in merit order. Scored university ranks n scholarships. I stood with my parents when they are ill or admitted in hospitals. But..my bros don't bother it. They studied in CBSE schools with high fees and donations. They are Admitted to professional degrees in management seat paying lakhs n lakhs fees..hvnt completed the course after 10 years..dont even write supplementary exams now. Very irresponsible, lazy, crooked and cruel. My marriage was carried out as simple at a temple. There was no wedding hall or extravagance. My husband never asked dowry. But on my wedding day my parents gifted me some jewellery to wear.. My eldest bro is 29 years old.
Asked 7 years ago
Sorry. There's is a clarification. Both brothers are younger than me. I meant 'eldest one among my bros'
Asked 7 years ago