Mother's rights in family
I joined IAF in 90 as Airman. Married in 94. Mother widow staying with me & taking Freedom Fighter family pension. Few months after marriage I felt wife is of odd behavior. Fm d day I started earning fm AF I am living separate. In d year 98 my wife got employed in Govt. job as Primary Teacher at Gurgaon & I shifted to Gurgaon. Month after she got Job, she became more arrogant & started behaving bad with my mother. She started feeding hates in me by saying that your mother doesn’t like/love you & want us to take divorce, I ignored this. She said d same thing about my brothers & sisters but I ignored this also. Then She started saying the same things about my friends or neighbors’ who so ever were close to me & lastly I had to say that no one can make us to take divorce unless we both want. Then she started to threaten me that she will commit suicide. I said that the life of our small children will be ruined but she could not be persuaded, being fed up of her daily threatening, I asked her to do whatever she likes. After that she hardly threatened me and started living with little change.
Now as d money is increasing in her account, she is becoming more arrogant. She doesn’t want my brothers or sisters or other relatives to come our home & meet me or my mother. She keeps taunting us & now has stopped giving her food & other care. She wants the property to be divided in half & wants me & my mother to stay separately. She claims that she has given more money then we both. Whereas d earnings of we three have been nearly same of each other & I have used all my retirement benefits at home only. She is saving huge amount in her PF account. She started earning 8 yrs after me & my mother.
More over my mother looked after my children hassle free as my was doing job & I being away fm home due to Defence Job.
Does my mother has any share in our property & how to deal with this type of situation.
Please advise me in details.
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Yes Sir, d property is in my name. My mother has given me her whole pension fm d day 1 of my marriage & pension has been very handsome, today she is getting Rs. 52000/- , But today she is empty handed except her pension.
1. How can I repay/obliged her kindness done to me?
Once I can't give her Happiness than I want to repay her debt. Pls tell me d way.
My wife too has contributed a little in d construction of home & in meeting d daily needs of our home.
1. Does my wife still has no right in my property?
2. How much right I have in her salary/earnings as she is earning being at my home?
Asked 7 years ago
Right & agreed Sir,
But as wife is also liable to bring up offspring/children with best facilities as one can afford for their better future,
When she is earning more then me as on date,
is she not liable/duty bound to contribute financially in the family affairs of we four (Both we & our children, if I leave apart my mother) . Pls clear.
Asked 7 years ago