Divorce and child custody
Married in 2009/03 - got Kid in 2012/04 - staying in Bangalore
Since the beginning of the marital relationship, it was hardship with my spouse, after long struggle, we both could start attending the couple counseling since 2015/03. The counselor diagnose in 2015/09 that my spouse has the Personality disorder, and recommended parallel medication along with regular Behavioral therapy. we have visited Psychiatric & she has prescribed medication to my wife along with regular counseling. My wife had lied that she is taking medication, but in 2016/09 we realized after she told that we realized that she didn't take medicine & was not on medication from day one.
Due to her Personality disorder, she makes mess out of small topics, screams, shouts, quick anger, sometime physical abuse(beating, slapping..etc.,) mental abuse (using abusing words towards me, my parents & relatives etc.,)
Due to her Such Personality Disorder behavior my Son is also undergoing Oppositional behavior & self-low esteem characteristics.
present condition is,
we are everyday hardship, staying together, (we both are working in software field)
she is neither willing to attend counseling nor willing to undergo medication
Child is under symptoms of Oppositional behavior.
As I couldn't continue with this condition, which I had bared for the past 7 years, I would like to be legally separated & wanted to have child custody.
Your advise & counseling is greatly helpful for further steps.
Asked 7 years ago in Family Law
Religion: Hindu
Dear Mr. Ajay,
Thanks for your quick reply,
1. could you please educate me on the approach of Mutual consent? In my view, it would be a less chance attempt.
2. in other case "divorce on grounds of mental cruelty" please educate me the process, I have this question, as we both are staying in same house as of now. Is there any precursor actions or process that required to process this?
incase of send option, please educate me, the process & approach.
my greater worry is about the Kid, How can I safeguard him from being more impact?
Asked 7 years ago