How to handle this situation

Hello Sir/Madam, I am married(arrenge) since Nov 2014 with a Divorcee Man (First divorced file within 3 months ,which was his love married & his family lied to My family )and have a baby girl who is Thirteen month old. I am a employee in one Pvt Ltd company .My In laws & My Husban making my life miserable specially Husband.He is not at all mentally ,Physically & Financially supportive .“ I m really very helpless as I hav got a small child to take care of. Also since my hubby is in a private job n earns 1 Lakh Rs per month still he wants me to pay to inlaws and for my own and for my child as well, he is not spending a single rupee for me n my child, he always demand money from me.We have taken flat in on Loan on both the name ,now he is asking for 14 lakh rs if I want to stay their. Though I always giv them the share from my salary .He doesn't even lets me know where he spends all the money I give his parents n him too. For the past 6 month no one is talking to me ,only fights ,they told me to keep my child in babysitting ,so from last 1 month I kept her in baby sitting. Because she is a baby girl they do not want the custody. My mother – in law finish all the food before I came from office. I have to pick up my baby by 0900 pm.then I have to cook for me n for my child as well. When I asked for the share for my child expenses ,they said its your child you handle . Please suggest what should I ll b doing if they file a case for divorce. however they are keen on it. They also threat me by saying that he will divorce and I won't get anything, I m really scared and under severe mental tension, my family is involved to help me but all are busy with their own life so i can not tell them what i am going through.so all procedure taking time. Plz suggest legal implications in this matter and oblige. I will b very grateful to you. Thanks in advance....awaiting your legal advise....