What should i do against on boy side.

Hi, sir/madam , meri problem last do saal se chal rahi hai actually mera rishta 26/06 2012 me haridwar place kankhal se hua tha .aur sir 2014 me ladke walon ne mera roka kiya tha or humne engagement ki thi. jisme humare family relatives or society k saBHI log involve the. sir problem yahan hui ki ladke walon ne do saal tak toh mujhe or m,eri family ko kaha ki humein sirf ladki chaqhiye or paisa ya dahej bilkul bhi nahi chahiye.lekin jab mere papa ne un logo ki expectation se jyada sab ceremony me expense approx unhe humne 350 pairs clothes ,laptop,gold chain, five gold jwellery ladke ki mom k liye or wahan k sabhi logo ko cash or ladke ko sagai ke 31000 shagun k paise diye, sir lekin un logo ko ye sab bhi kam laga or ladke ki mom ne ye rishta engagement ke teen din baab break kar diya ,,mene or meri family ne bohot request ki lekin woh log nahi mane.phir jab humare samaaj k log or haridwar k beech panchayat ne ye rishta final tudwaya or dono family ki saare cash clothjes or jwellery exchange return ki gayi orpanchayat ke dicision k according 150000 me sattlement hua. jo ki khud ladke or uski mom ne written me diya tha ki hum thode din baad paisa lota denge.. sir phir ek month k baad uski mom ki death ho gayi or usne humse mohlat maangi toh humne kaha ki theek h ...abhi time nahi h toh kuch din baad me de dena.....usne humse 3 month ka time liya or uske baad usne na toh humara call liya or nahi money back k bare me kuch kaha or humein cheat karta raha or kaha ki tum logo ko p[aise nahi milenge jo karna h karo infact haridwar k log bhi tumhari help nahi karenge...ab sir humein kya karna chaiye please help us humein koi big issue creaTE NAHI KARNA BAS MERE PAPA KE PAISE wih ladka wapas kar de aisa koi way bataiyega..plks sir i really need ur help.no body is helping us..and we cant trust on any body..pls help us. one thing is wo ladka govt job par hone k bawjood paise dene ko mana kar raha h...meri perssonnel life par bhi kaafi effect pada h sir....