I am confused state what to do with my lawyer - divorce case

Hi I am living in USA and got married in 2010 in India and came back to USA, had baby in 2012. With all disputes applied for divorce in USA and my didn’t attended the court here in USA and I got default divorce in April 2017. My wife went to India and filed dowry harassment case on my family and maintenance case in August 2017. I got stuck at my work here in USA and can’t visit India until February 2018.We hired a lawyer and he charged 1.5 lacs for maintenance case and he said he will file quash case at high court and charged 1.5 lacs again. Since from 3 months my parents attended police station and sessions court and for each appearance he is charging 10,000 rupees every month. He is not responding to the question what objections he is providing the court and when he filed the quash case at high court. I am requesting for the documents what he submitted to the court to send to me since from 3 weeks all he is saying to wait for next month 15th and charging 10,000 to 20,000 rupees every month and I am totally in confused state should I hire another lawyer or not. What will be the consequences if I hire another lawyer already I am in trouble as my parents are in educated they are getting depressed about our family situation. My lawyer is saying once we file a quash case at high court we can get stay for 1 - 1.5 years with that stay no need to attend sessions court or police station monthly is tat true? After getting stay we can go for settlement as the other party will become weak mentally. As my baby is 5 years old I requested him let’s request court that I am ready to take care of the baby and I am ready for amicable divorce and my wife family threatened my dad to give all of the money we have and leave Bangalore. Now all my lawyer is saying is to wait for the stay he said we will get it by November 15 which is yesterday some how I need to be pleasant. What can I do with my lawyer now - what logical questions can I ask to confirm what he is doing with my case.