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Meri shaadi20/03/2014 ko hui thi us samay main apni job related training par Dehradun me ati hostel me tha is kaaran main apni wife ko kahi bhi ghumane ya outing par nahi le ja paaya his kaaran hamare beech miss under standing shuru Ho gayi aur wo kehne lagi tumhara affair hai tabhi tum mujhe apne saath nahi rakhna chahte Maine kaafi samjhane ka prayaas kiya par bahas badhti hi gayi Jo baat baat par bahas aur jhagdon me badal jaati hai augst 2014 ko training khatam karne ka baad me wapas apni job par as Gaya Jo Shivpuri dist mp main hai Maine apni wife se kaha Ki tum Gwalior me mere ghar par raho main weekends me ghar aaya karunga aur meri mp psc Ki preparation bhi hoti rahegipar is baat par bhu kaafi bahas hui aur main apni wife ko apne saath rakhne laga par phir bhi purani baton ko lekar hamare beech bahas hone lagi aur ek month baad hi wife ke mummy as kar usko wapas le gayi phir hamare ghar Gwalior jakar kaafi hangama kiya aur kaha Ki sahi se rakho nahi to court case kar denge uske do months baad me apni wife lekar wapas job par as Gaya aur phir wapas jhagde hona ahuru Ho Gaye iske baad march 2015 me psc mains ka exam dene ke liye Maine apni wife se time dene ko kaha aur bola 15 Dino ke liye apne ghar chali jao is par bhi kaafi jhagda Hua aur uske mummy papa wapas usko le Gaye aur kaha tum sahi se rakho itni tension ke kaaran mere exam bhi kharab gaye aur jhadga bhi Hu main phir usko lekar apni job par as Gaya phir Diwali se pehle mere dobara exam the tab Maine phir usko ghar jaane ko kaha is baar phir bahas hui aur wo ghar chali gayi Oct 15 last me Diwali ke din main usko ghar le kar aaya do din baad wo phir jid karne kagi mujhe mummy ke pass jaana hai Maine kaha do din pehle hi lekar aaya Hu itni jaldi kaise wapas chhod aau sab log mujhe hi blame karenge lekin baat badhti gayi aur uska cousin brother agle din usko lene aaya phir se ghar par kafi hungama Hua aur unse kaha ab me tumhare ghar wapas nahi aayungi lagbhag dus din baad main usko leker wapas job par aagaya tab se hi wo mere ghar nahi jaati baat baat par court case Ki dhamki aur mere ghar walo ke baare me ulta seedha bolti hai ab jab bhi mujhe ghar jaana hota hai to pehle usko maatke me chhodkar hi apne ghar jaa pasta Hu Isi kaaran wo mere saath 15-20 din se jyada regular nahi rah paati hai Jo hamare beech aksar jhagde ka kaaran ban jaati hai in sab situations se main kaafi dipress Ho Gaya Hu daily raat raat bhar bahas karne ka negative effect meri job par bhi pad raha hai doosri taraf har samay court case ka dar mujhe is situation se bachne ke liye kya karna chahiye