Dowry and post marriage expenses.

My (bride) family has given amount of 25L to groom's family at the time of marriage , 10 L as marriage expenses and 15 L as expenses to the household. My husband had spent close to 6L already and I spent close to 2 L on initial expenses (like furniture , appliances, house rent in Bangalore ) , but he's insisting that i should give him money (~50k) every month for the expenses . But the problem is the dowry money is added to parents account and he does not want to take money from there for expenses because he created FD on his parents name . The way we are at the relationship (bad place with lot of controlling issues), i am not comfortable giving money to him , it's not my problem the money is added to his parents name and he can't access it unless he goes to kerala to retrieve it . If I'm expecting to be divorced from him , what should be the approach ? I don't think I can go to the law, because giving and accepting dowry is a problem. What should I do so that I'm not financially exploited ?