How to get my money back from fraudulent escort service?

Hi, I'm so ashamed and embarrassed to be in this situation. I got a contact of the escort service group from Tinder dating app. I contacted that person in Telegram chat. She ignited my desire to make quick money by explaining the remuneration charges for attending a client. Initially I paid Rs.470 as registration fee, then paid Rs.14,000 which is 50% of remuneration for attending a client. Again they asked me to pay Rs.6,170 for security charges, which I paid. Finally they asked me to pay Rs.10,000 for the member pass, which I also paid. In total I paid Rs.30,640 to them through Gpay & Phonepe. They told me that they will share the client details in 5 minutes but they never did. I called my contact person and asked to refund the amount I paid, he said he will but after a few minutes he's not responding to my texts or call. To make me believe they're authentic, the contact person shared with me their company affidavit, his PAN card & AADHAAR card details. I don't know how to proceed further with the information I have in hand. I'm just 26 years old I have a long future ahead, out of greediness to earn quick money I fell into their trap. I don't want to file a complaint against them in the Police station because that will ruin my name & my family's dignity. But I don't want to leave them live happily by cheating others, also I want my money back too. What should I do? Is there a solution for this situation?