My wife is not coming to home after delivery of the child.

Hi Sir, I have got married 2 yrs ago , from the day of marriage we have quarrels, fights, till today.She always refuses my decisions or words.Now after delivery she refuses to come home even we went to their home asked to come.she refused and she dragged me out from her house in front of all my family members, Her father tried to slap my mother. Even I tried to stop and luckily I managed to come out of the house. The next day they filed an case in women police station which made me to feel very bad , went into depression tried suicide and hospitalised for 10 days. At that time also she didn't came to see me in the hospital. After that we sent middle mans to know their decision, now they are saying we want a separate house and family setup , away from the parents. My father met with an car accident severely on the day of my marriage. Even after two years also he is not able to walk properly, all outdoor matters, I am taking care on behalf of my father. Now I decided to get a divorce even she refuses also. Please suggest.