My wife filed 498A case when I am in The Netherlands and my advocate filed quash petition in HC

I am Netherlands citizen now , my wife and I were living in The Netherlands and both working in NL for 4 years , my wife has some behavioral issues or unknown mental issues and with her force we had a child. My wife father is a Sub-Inspector of Police in Woman police station, we had a fight in The Netherlands and she called police and Netherlands police reported to counselling center to do a counselling to both of us , the fight happened due to she is not willing to come to my home and in the past 4 yrs of married life she only stayed for 2 to 3 weeks whereas I stayed in her parents home more than 5 weeks , I decided to move back to India and stay with my single mother also had a panchayat with elders, I asked her to stay in India wither with my mother or with her parents and I asked her NL residents permits to send in Registered post she sent them , I travelled to NL without informing the date of my travel then she filed a 498A complaint and dowry of 8lakh complaint in the police station where her father is working and assigned the other investigation officer , we went to High court for quashing but my lawyer initially told us he will prayer HC to quash FIR for A2 to A7 (total 7 family members in the FIR ) and file anticipatory bail in district court but he betrayed us (I guess) by filing quash petition from A1 to A7 in the prayer to HC without my signature but he took my mother signature and took my AADHAR card Now the police officer issued 41A notice sticked to my house main door in public and when my mother and sisters went to police station he issued another 41A notice and indicating that he will not file charge sheet until I personally present before him and I am feeling he keeps on issuing 41A notices to my family to be present before him in the police station , my family has to travel 6 hrs from my home town and my sisters are living in different states 1. Did my lawyer filed wrong quash petition filing for A1 to A7 in HC without telling me (he told that he will do only for A2 to A7 and anticipatory bail in district court) ? or I am thinking wrong? 2. How many times police officer can issue 41 A notice to my family , can we go to HC or Supreme court in this situation 3. I am waiting for my OCI card to travel to India which can take 3 months normally but due this case will this be issued ? in this case I cannot leave my job for more than 30days , Is there any official way to inform police officer that once I have my OCI I am coming to India for good 4.How I can protect my mother and sisters and Brother in Law not to travel / how to prove their innocence 5.What are the punishments to wife that I can pray courts Kindly help ..!