Husband is absent

It's an Muslims arranged marriage.my husband is government employee.I have 2 kids girl and boy.I have issue in my marriage He and his mother and sister came to talk for marriage proposal and all set(dowry, gifts) marriage fixed.First day of marriage my Mil crying and saying my son dont listen to your wife,if you listen to her she seperates us.(i am shocked 2nd day of marriage it's happen)After marriage they started abusing me,ignoring me.My Mil and Sil always saying your wife not talking with us not respecting us.u changed totally after marriage like this words they started within in a month of marriage.My husband is mother puppet he listen each and everything of his mother and sister and follow as they directed.he don't talk me .If i forced him he open ups you don't respect my mother and sister and many things he said.If i ask Mil and Sil they gathers all their family members for panchayat and call my parents (which i don't like it's simple matter it dissolves with in us if they shut their mouths or between us it solves if discuss but they don't do).After too many panchayat's they started blaming me i never cooks,house chores i never do ,if i cooks it salty,spicy, like this.they told each and every one of neighbours , their relatives and my relatives.Day by day mental torture started.after 1 month of marriage i conceived sometimes I feel tired because of vomiting and headache (masalas smell,some smells are makes me vomiting during my pregnancy.even i cook and doing house chores my Mil don't come to help,even she didn't ask me about my health they only want son not me.Each and every day Sil came to our house and complaining for everything.They try to fight with me but I never.My husband fight with me because of mother and sister.i support him in every possible way (giving gold, money from my parents,my pocket money from my parents).He didn't support me in any matter even I am right.Too many fights stars after 6 months of marriage.He didn't takes me anywhere.if my health is not well then also because his mother don't like to take wife outside.Always says control your wife if you don't control her she will on your head like this she tells.in 9th month of my pregnancy (10months marriage)my parents came to take me for delivery (rasam in Muslim) in this husband also came with wife buy my Mil didn't send him.i felt very bad that time.my husband don't have sense to respect wife.His first preference is mother i don't oppose it but wife also your responsibility.but he totally absent when I want him.If i am Ill she tells my husband it's her parents job for treatment don waste money.They don't value me.Now 10 years of marriage i have no importance in my husband.he wants to leave me.many times they tried to seperate us.but i didn't accept.My husband always running from his responsibilities till now he don't come to drop me or pick me to my parents home or anywhere.He wants divorce,he blocked me.His mother told leave my son.what can I do please help me