Hi, I'm wife party,2019 I got married.It was an arrangd Marriage. V spent moretan 30L for marriage.

My inlaws(even husband)requestd me to I leave job for atlst 1year.I did the same.The thing is my husband had a affair befre marriage. He didn't share anythng with me when I came to know it, he used to tell me that she was just a friend. I hav seen so many photos and vedios with her and one day I asked him, he said I left everything when I gt your proposal & now ua r the only person in my life. Actually, they were in relationship for 4 years. Later I came to know dat he married me coz of his parents and for my parent's money. These things happend within a month, we were not even completd 1 month of marriage life. One day I hv noticed her calls nd vedio calls after our engagement and she had come to our marriage also. I asked my husband that day itself again he was telling just a friend. I raised my voice and he started blaming their parents and he started fighting with me by saying I'll go and marry the same girl do whatever u want, I stay with her. I felt very bad and attempted to suicide. Instead of stopping he was taking vedio when I'm hanging to fan Coz to show their parents that it was not his fault. I got ashamed due to his behavior and i stopped it. Even though I got hurt and got mark around my neck. finally I decided to stop such things & rememberd my parents( coz they struggled a lot to raise their 4 childrens(girls)). I said him that better will separate I'll talk to my parents coz this is not going to work out & we may spoil our life. He cried a lot & promised me that he loves me & he wants to be with me forever.I totally convincd & gave him a chance to change. I didn't share(till1year) anything with anybody coz I thought he will change. I left that topic there itself coz I don't like to imagine anybody with my husband when he's mine. From 2nd month everythng was gud. We were so happy I startd trusting him and I was not asking anything and not expecting anything rather than his love and attention.Somehow he took money from our parents without my knowledge and also convinced my parents not to tell me(I came to know dis when fight strtd). At the same time my in laws were forcing me to ask my husband abt his salary. Whnevr i ask he used to refusing it. From thr onwards fights startd & he was abusing me & my parents. At dat time I was so attachd to him& not ready to leave him. He took dat advantage & he separatd me from my parents,relativs. By his sisters & mother support he startd showing his split personality forcefully abortd my baby and torturd to leave my current job.Without reasons he used to fight & leave me for 1M, 3M(Bngl'r)&1year(his native till dec2022).I hv finally filed a case dat I want to stay with my husband. After receivng a notice he came back(march2022) to my parents & beggd to send me. I trusted again & went(june2022).1day I gt doubt dat he's spendng money on lawyer & I asked his phone bt he refused.So, I try to grab it bt he ran away.Now, he's asking divorce & statng dat I mentally tourcherd him fa his past.