Can I give divorce to my wife if she's not ready for mutual divorce?

I'm 24years old and my wife is 31 years old, it's been 3 yrs to our marriage and in those three years she had made my life hell... It was actually a love marriage, we got married without telling anyone in our family back then I was a college student and she worked in an addiction NGO, for 2 years nobody knew about our marriage and it was really hard for me to keep such a big thing from my family on the other hand she and her family started playing games that I didn't understand then they take money from me ask me to do their work I had no source of income so I lie to my family for money those were really stressful time and to cope with stress I started drugs... Last year due to an overdose I collapse and my family got to know about everything... Even after knowing that how I betrayed them they were ready to accept her and they got us remarried for the sake of society they even took care of her family's expense in the wedding but within one week of the marriage she started fighting with my mother and even threatened to blow up the cylinder, I was in the rehabilitation process so they kept quiet for my sake and this kept on going everyday fight with her and then call her brother to take her away... Her demand was not to live with my family... My family did everything thing in their power to make things right but she and family are impossible to reason with. For her my father took job in Ludhiana and also rented a house for her and me. We lived without my family for two months but she's constantly fighting me over irrational things. And one day she called her brother from Delhi and went away again...Today I'm completely drug free and my mind also work better, I work in a textile company and now I don't want to go back to that way of life again it was brutal and I have suffered enough all I want is to get the divorce. I asked her to divorce me if you want to fight all the time her reply was I won't divorce you I will make you pay for this marriage and also threaten to file case of domestic violence against me and my family if I try to get divorce... Please anyone can suggest me possible way out...