Re investigating FIR

I and my wife had a dispute. So I filed divorce petition in the district court which is still in pending. My wife filed restitution of conjugal rights that also pending. During this dispute, my wife has taken away my passport and american dollars which is around 7200 USD. I have complained in local police station to recover my passport. But the police didn't recover my passport since she had political and police influence. The police closed my complaint saying that she didnt possess my passport. After one year(2018), I filed passport lost complaint and applied for reissue of passport. The passport officers issued my passport and I went to collect my passport to the postal office. My wife talked with the post woman to get the passport before I get. She wore muslim burkah and standing in the post office. Once I signed in the register post record, the post woman handed over the passport to my wife. Later I realized the covered girl is my wife and she is here to get my passport again. Since I felt suspicious, I gave my phone to my friend to record this until I collect my passport. I fetched the passport from her hand and ran away with my friend from that place. She was chasing us with her paid guys and following us. As soon I reached home, I asked my father to close the door and she is chasing me to collect the passport. my dad closed the gates and he was inside. I ran away from home and waiting for my friend to report in the police station about the incident. She entered my house and broken all the records , things. She broken my car and my brother's car winshields . She pushed my father down also. Before I go the police station, she was walking in the streets and she creating scratches herself on her bodies. The people in the streets were also watching. Since she already influenced in the station, the station people didnt take my complaint. They said, you already have a family dispute so we cant take complaint. I immediately left from there and complained in the superindent of police. The superindent informed the police station and filed FIR on her for my compliant. They filed FIR on me for her complaint. Later , the police investigated and closed the FIR charges on me(which is complained by my wife) as mistakes of facts. They put charge sheet on my wife. In 2020, my wife filed a reinvestigaion of FIR in the court and it is ordered now Feb, 2022. Now the police threatening me that if you don't live with your wife, I will file charges on you and your friend. He will lose job and his family will be on streets. I was not notified when this re investigation application filed and the case were going on the court. Neither my lawyer was not aware. Kindly help me with the options to proceed. I am tired of fighting all the time for fake allegations. Now they are threatening my friend since he is in Tamilnadu Police Training. If they file a FIR, he will lose a job. Now I am responsible for his family too.