Talaq e hasan

My husband deserted me and very young daughters and went to his aunt's house. Did not pay rent and so owner warned to vacate the house. Now i am with my parents. He took away his belongings with him. Married for over 8 years. 2 girl children. Husband sent Talaq e hasan through Whats app. Second notice sent again through whats app to my relatives. I am not informed anything. How does this become valid? All allegations filed by him are false. He filed an RCR which got disposed because he did not attend the counsellings. How should i make his notices null and void. He does not spend a rupee to me or the children. What happens if he sends third notice. Will my 8 years of married life go a waste based on his bad attitude? I do not intend to divorce. This is just a RPAD notice sent to incorrect address witnessed by his brother and brother in law. Please help provide legal support. Being born in muslim religion i never knew i will have to face this day. Why cannot we make divorce laws to be followed only through court irrespective of the religion for both men and women where an opportunity can be given to either party to disclose facts and proofs before moving further. With the disguise of religion, many lives are destroyed.