Challange xparte divorce

My hindu wedding was done in 2007 and no child from this wedlock. we both are working in pvt job. my husband filed divorce suit against me in 2018 on ground of cruelty. our counselling not settled in court. Replication filed and issues framed. i become x-parte after that in starting months of 2020 with think it will be settle between both of us by time with family support, so avoid self involvement in case proceedings. on the other side my in laws filed case to make house vacate from me and my husband and after proceedings judgement was given to their favour in end of 2020. i moved to my maternal home in starting months of 2021 but my belongings is still there in in laws house. 1 would like to know what are the sufficient cause to set aside xparte in divorce case which is on final arugument and its more than yeas i become xparte 2. after xparte divorce decison can i apply to high court or challenge it somehow 3. how can i get copy of court counselling cell report of divorce case. when judge send us for counselling and it was fail 4. can in lwas force me to vacate the place and remove my belonging from there