Have 8 month child and seeking for divorce

Hi, I am a 29 year old hindu married since almost 5 years but getting thoughts of divorce. Both me and my husband are working in Bangalore but currently staying in his native. We have a son who is 8 month old currently. My husband is kind hearted, helping and broad minded but he doesn't spend time with family and behaves like bachelors. When we visit his native he roam outside till 11:30-12:00 at night and doesn't have food with family and prefers alone time. He is so indisciplined and lazy that he doesn't take bath daily if he doesn't go office and everything messed up. If I try to correct him and ask him to spend some quality time with family then he get angry and start fighting with everyone. My in-laws are too good and most of the time they supported me. In Bangalore I don't have problem with my husband but in his native he spend time with some of his relatives who are backbiter and everyone hate them but my husband has soft corner for them. He always visit their house and have drinks. I don't have problem if he spend money on them but they gossip about other relatives and pretend to be so good in front of my husband. They praise my husband whatever he do whether it's right or wrong. If I ask him not to mingle with such people then he start abusing me. If I ask him to be disciplined, be a family man and follow the rituals but he shouts at me. I thought after having baby he will be fine but it's worse now. Earlier I used to pin point his mistakes and fight all the time but once I conceived I stopped fighting with him over silly things and thought he will improve himself but now he is still indisciplined, lazy and stubborn that I am worried about my baby's future. He want to stay independent and want freedom such that no one should question him. If I do then he doesn't want to stay with me and doesn't want to see my face. My presence is irritating him. Getting suisidical thoughts but feel helpless after looking at my baby. Its been a month I came to my in-laws place after my maternity leaves and now I want to go my parents place so that I can live peacefully for sometime but my husband asking me to leave child with him. It's lockdown here in Karnataka and I am totally blind. My father in-law is also a lawyer and they have good status in society. By looking at my in-laws I have been staying in this relationship but I don't see any positive changes in my husband so that I can stay. This time I am totally fed-up and don't want to compromise at all. Kindly help me.