My husband wants divorce on petty reasons and I am not willing to Divorce

Hi, I got married last year and was staying in in-laws flat with my husband alone. My in laws are at native place After marriage I came to know that he has a habit of self harming when I saw him hitting himself with a belt after a dispute with his mother and on another occassion burning with hot iron stick. I also came to know that he was in physical relationship with a girl staying nearby for two years and left her as per his mothers wish saying that she use filthy language and quarrel with him He gave importance to his family only and never gave me any importance nor looked after my expenses My father used to get every thing for me. We used to quarrel due the constant interference of his family in our daily affairs He used to provoke me and now I came to know that he recorded all that I said and shared the same with his family. In January this year , after a quarrel I came to my parents place for two days. Taking this chance he left for native place and still not returned. He stopped all communications with me and his father informed my parents that his son want a divorce. They are using the recorded conversation as a weapon. They are telling the same reason as of the previous girl. They further got the flat locked by someone to stop me from entering the premises I am a student and don’t have any income. He is not giving me any money. I visited native place to meet him but he refused to talk to me. His father said it is his residance and I will not be allowed there I still love him and not interested in divorce. but they are adamant as they want to send him to abroad . What should I do ? Please help .