Divorce

Hi Sir, I married before 24 years. After marriage of 3 days from Kerala we left to my working place at Madhya Pradesh (Now knowing as Chhattisgarh). Later one moth of my marriage my wife used to fight with me as we have very less understanding between us. Gradually my wife has started doubting & blaming on me about my extra-marital affairs. She always tried to harassed me; my family is economically not sound as her family. She suggested calling back her lover to go with him. I tried to explain the situation and digest whatever happened in our past, from today we have to love each other and live as good couples. Year pass by in our life a newcomer came (a female baby). After 2 years a one more baby we have (Male baby). On annual leave we came back to Kerala every year loved each other, years pass by when my 1st child she was 6 Years, I was at Chhattisgarh and family along with kids back to home( Kerala) during summer holidays vacation. In April, soon after1 ½ months I, left to Kerala to bring back them to Chhattisgarh, but she refused to back to Chhattisgarh reason is obscure. Due to threatening, her mother also permit all things as per her ambition,or what she said. Then I have decided to give the resignation to my employer, because I wish to live along with my family and children. Joining with my family at Kerala 2, 3 months both of us are happy. I joined one of the marine firms at Ernakulum, Kerala worked there till 3 months, during the rainy season food, water and climate and not suitable to my health. Hence, I resigned the job, and joined another company in my district only. Till 2006 live is a mix of happy and sorrow in the proportion of 1:3 ratios. Due to defamation and demonization I decide to suicide. But the grace of God I am still alive. The episode was in 2011. In 2013 wife went to Gulf without my permission. From 2013 till today I am alone. In between I am looking after my children’s study day to day needs etc. There was whatsapp messagaes twice or thrice in a month. If any urgent requirement of money to her. From September 2020 onwards that also disconnected. I, suffered so much of harshment, burden from here and the community. I don’t want to bring her back into my life as we are never going to live a happily together. Last month I send a voice message to her , if I am giving divorce to her it reflects so much of feelings in her heart to hurt. Even if, that’s why I asked her to divorce me because still I love her. She needs here life as “AZAD PANJI”. Please help me through this. Thanks. (Ravishanker)