Husband denying to live with wife

My husband does not have a job n living on his family’s income. He wants me to live in his house n be dependent on his parents like him. But his parents get passive income which itself is not sufficient. I have a job in another city n requesting him to come n live with me n find a job. But he is not agreeing. He says he wants to live with his parents. His dad is also asking him to leave as he is a burden on him financially. But his mother is supporting his decision n does not find a problem that we are living separately. She says no one can force my son to leave his parents. I told him to get his parents with him also n stay with me. But his mother does not want to come. From 1 year I’m forced to live separately on no grounds. I am traveling between 2 states for the sake of continuing my marriage n tired now. I have taken a stand that I want to live with my husband in one place n start my family. I told him to come n live with me in my city, I will take a rented house away from my parents because he does not like them Or told him that I will leave my job n come to his city but asked to keep me in a separate house n take care of his responsibilities in his marriages. But my husband wants divorce now. He is bluntly telling he cannot leave his parents but ready to leave his wife. We had a lot of issues due to cross cultural marriage. I’ve constantly attempted to make my marriage work. But in first week of marriage itself for a small issue, he said lost in interest in the marriage. Every small problem is like a mountain due to his misunderstandings n his thought process. His mother is very opinionated in all our matters n gives wrong meanings to even small argument between me n my husband. My husband unconsciously learns from her n there is never an understanding that is created between us due to this. He is bringing up old matters as a reason n proving his inability to live with me as I’m a bad wife. I want to save my marriage. Please help!