Dispute Wife Vs Family

Hello sir, I have married with my wife in 2015. Since marriage we live in house which is owned by my mother. we are 5 members (Me, My wife, My Mother, My younger brother and his wife) and 4 children's (my 2 daughters and my brothers 2 son). since, my wife highly educated she always had a dream of working women and independent women, but she has some basic problems like mismanagement of time, and multitasking issues. so, after 2 years marriage we shifted on first floor of the same house due to small small issues between my wife and my brothers wife. but still the issues are not ended. Also my wife feels like we have daughters so we are like getting neglected but facts are not as she thinks. She feels insecurity regarding children's future and even she is not ready to get shifted to another place along with me for peaceful life. Now days she has became so violent and dominating and talks abusively. kindly suggest the steps to solve the issues. I have no intention to get separated from her but she continuously asking me for divorce. I am big dilemma kindly guide me.