My in-laws are spoiling my wife future can stop my wife from meeting my in laws

Am married for 3years till date my wife was not with me atleast for 100 days even physically we are not that attached she has no interest in sex hardly we met 50times out of 1300days anyways my point is my wife is selfish bcoz of her job comforts and she don't cook or manage thing at my place we are living separate she doesnt like to organize home just get up and runn away to college she is a lecturer she blackmailed me and made me to shift to her mom's place next lane I thought let me make her understand that how much I love her and the baby and for her job comforts I have travelled distance everyday and tried stay with her at her mom's locality but she never cooked for me till date in 3years it's true sometimes I cook or I go to my mom place and eat in the mean time when we are together at her mom's locality I asked her where is the food she always orders me to go and have at here mom's place y shud I have every day infaact my inlaws are idiots they don't respect me so o don't like to go there now I came back to my old place and taken a flat for rent I asked my wife to comeback she came and same usual like always this is 4th time she come stays for 2 or 3 days and wantedly create some issue and leave my place with all her closthes and that's it she again doesn't come back please tell me recently we have big argument she said she will give divorce she took my byk also which was present during marriage so I don't want to break this marriage can I stop my wife to stop visiting her mom's place please suggest please help me sir