Mangalsutra

I give lot of importance to hindu tradition. My husband and myself stayed together for 6 years with lot of physical, verbal, mental abuse from husband and in laws. My husband is addicted to alcohol since his childhood which was hidden. I persuaded and finally took him to de-addiction center but my in laws stopped him only to take revenge on me. My husband is a puppet in his mothers hands. He just does what his mom says without second thought. Even after so much harassment, since I am still statying with my husband is not liked by them and so they made him file divorce. I filed 498a against them and he got arrested. .Its been 3 yrs we are seperated and we have come to an understanding and written MoU to close all case and head towards divorce because my in-laws want to get rid of me. i closed all my cases from my end and 498a observation period over but requested magistrate to close after divorce. I wanted to impose a condition that my mother-in-law remove my sutra in temple which is when atleast she will feel guilty for what she has done with me. I tried to save my marriage which is the reason I quit my job in USA and in India and just acted per their wishes