Seeking clarification on Spouse property and legal rights, as a security.

I am married for about 10 years, and have a son of 8.5 years. Me and my husband both are married professionals. Husband never involves me or disclose me the details of his family's acts, include Financial and non financial matters. (which includes transferring of money and property on his mother's name in he name of gift deeds, keeping my jewelry since marriage, as well as the non-financial matters like disputes and divorces etc happening in the immediate family members). I am restrained from asking any details and is belittled on everything. I have been asked to take care of my expenses on my own since marriage, like travel to my parents (for myself and kid), any other expenses. As long as i am earning and able to do job, i have sustained. I have been physically and mentally harassed a lot in last 10 years and have been verbally abused with name-calling etc. But it has caused a lot of mental stress and i am on verge of losing job (again). I want to understand that how can i get the Security for myself and kid, and do i have legal right to keep my savings intact for future and still seek clarification on the financial assets status of my spouse? Husband wants me to leave his house silently, with a mutual consent but in public tells that he never wants to. staying in house with him is like suffering silently. please suggest, as i have been told by my husband that i wont be able to prove anything against him.