Husband was emotionally unavailable and impotent

I got married a year ago. My husband has always been emotionally unavailable. The family kept saying he is shy, he did not have a girlfriend and is an innocent boy. He has not seen the world, though he has stayed 1 year in US. He always kept avoiding me. If I sat in room, he would go to hall, he would not call me even once in a day neither reply to my messages He kept saying he doesn't like whatsapp yet he was online most of the time. On the first night I slept for 2 hours since he wasn't conversing at all but woke up before dinner He never approached nor touched, even on honeymoon. After a month we were sent away by his mother to get physical but he dint do it saying he doesn't have feelings. Again after a month when I asked he said I did not give any hints. He is 31 years old and it's an arranged marriage. We went to counselor in Feb and he said there just because we are married I don't think we should consummate. The doctor advised him to start it. He tried after 15 days but he dint want to do it and he couldn't maintain any erection. Also he did not know how to do it. Again his family said he must have never seen any movie and today women are more modern. He kept putting blame on me saying she doesn't close curtains, doesn't do make up, doesn't dress up, is bossy etc so I am not able to do it. We tried again after a month and again same result. Neither he liked talking to me nor he wanted to have any physical relationship. Even during covid when there was work from home he said I get drained out physically and mentally and will do it only on weekends. Again he told his mom she does not give any expression. We went to counselor again in May and she asked him to take medicines but he did not take those also and skipped gynaecologist check up. Financially also even when we went out I always paid. Every month I would buy grocery. I haven't gotten a penny from him. My parents spent around 15 lacs plus around 10 lacs on gold and silver and more on gifts. I am at my parents place for 6 months. We asked them thrice on how to move forward but no reply. We have been cheated. 1) Can I ask for alimony 2) I am not sure if he fixed his issue in past few months and if I go to court for medical checkup and he has taken some medication, will counselor's report work? 3) Can we get back all our gold and silver