Mental cruelty

Hi... I have been married to three years now, I have been always considered as outsider.. they have always taken all the decisions on there own.. without my involvement.. my husband doesn't share his salary or his expenses with me.. and it was he who asked me to marry early when. I was not ready for early marriage since I had my education loan.. he said he will pay ..and post marriage right after my delivery .. my daughter turned 8 months.. he started forcing me to work.. and also threatened me that if I don't find a job .. from next month onwards he will not pay my loan. Which made me started look if for new jobs where the city was new to me and post pregnancy within an year .. he forced me hunt for jobs in my own...and all these three years my mother in law has been mentally tortured me .. she never gave space or privacy to us.. she always took partt in all our conversation and always use to take decision for us.. she always I'll treated me and also talked bad about me on my back to my family .. husband and everyone.. always tried to gain confidence of my husband by emotional blackmail.. always lied and was dishonest to me... She keeps all the finance of my husband ... I don't even have nay stand to toe on my own.. ..so for my mental peace of mind .. I found a job a more than year back in Mysuru ..since then me and my daughter gave been staying here but my husband has not come here to visit us . Always me who use to visit in-laws house .. along with my daughter.. he never spent a good time with us .. voluntarily.. and now again I had a big fight at husband house.. when I overheard there conversation regarding me.. how am only utilizing him and not a good mother and about my character assassination.. and I heard this conversation over phone where my husband had forgotten to disconnect the call by mistake and I got a chance to hear the conversation... Regarding me which proved me right all these times they use to do the same.. and I tried informing don't do this..don't talk on my back .. instead clear out things on my face .. and let's understand each other but that never happened . They always plotted and planned things in my absence ..which made my life miserable and I am mentally not keeping well