My wife has destroyed my life

For my wife I left every one , my parents and every one I went against them , my marriage was an arrange marriage .after 2 years of marriage she want a baby from her X through ivf .she is tourture me abuse me , abuse my DNA abuse my blood , abused my parents , mentally tourtures me,now from last 2 years we are living with each other like a friend not like a husband , wife . There is no physical relationship between us , what not I did to keep this . When she got another man in her life , now she is deciding me to divorce , how ridiculous , I left everything , every one for her , now she is living me ,oh god . She wants mutual divorce , but I don't want to give her divorce. So I want to know wt she can do if I ignore divorce . I have left only my job , now she is saying I will take over your job too. I am already came in road . Now she wants to take away my job , and abusing me . I jus want to ask if I don't agree with mutual divorce wt quencequices I have to face . Wt can she do to harm me .