Husband says he can not live happily with me as his parents are not happy with me

I am married to a software professional. At the time of marriage told me about his affair with an foreigner but assured me now there is nothing between them. After the engagement he shifted to another city for job. After 6 days of marriage he left me with his parents as it was forced by his parents. From the very second day of my marriage my MIL started using taunting language for me. I used to work all day till night feeling lonely and tolerating abusing language if my MIL and BIL. Then I fought with my husband to take me with him. When he came to take me with him his family was not happy. His father created a scene when we went for a movie for 4 hrs. I started living with my husband. Then his family was against us for buying basic need things like bed, refrigerator, washing machine. They always used to taunt us that you are going to get settled there. Then after my BIL marriage (Love marriage) he became extremely against me. My MIL was having issues with me for putting small bindi and 1 choori. My in laws started gaslighting my husband. My husband sometimes opposed them sometimes yelled at me badly. I was forced to get a child. And when pregnant was forced to get a boy child. They sent me to my parents home for delivery and then after 1 month of delivery my BIL and his wife started telling that i should be with them to take care of his parents. My husband always took their side whenever i raised any issue. He repeteadly tells me that he want me to keep his parents happy and fulfill their expectations. He himself knows that there is a lot of differentiation in his family between his brother and him. When my husband tried to support me his family left him alone as well. Now after 10 years of marriage everything is same. My inlwas family boycott me and they do not talk much to my husband as well. Now my husband feels that because i can not keep his parents happy they are leaving him also. I loved my husband alot but now every single day my dying i do not live with him. There has been clear partiality in his family. His brothers wifes extra marrital affair has been forbidden but they keep on complaining about me to my husband. My MIL takes everything as disrespect for herself and complaints to my husband and shows her disentment on every trivial issue as trivial as not putting alta on my feet for some pooja or not touching her feet. She gets angry and gives silent treatment for days for such trivial issues untill my husband gets very angry with me and feel that i am not trying to keep gus parents happy. There are lots of stories i am being tourtured with. Now they are not entertaining my husband also in his family because if what he feels that he is loosing his parents because of me. Plz HELP