My wife filed 13 1 i(a) case

1. There is no major reason for the divorce. Just few word of fights 2. I convinced her and she was ready to come back but her brother did not allow saying if u will come to get her then only she will come. (Earlier i went her to get back once but her family make me seat for hours and tell every small things to do accordingly. For i.e financial management, outing , sleeping time , bdy celebrations, kitchen work etc. 3. Mediators suggest them not to go for divorce still it's her else brother and elder sister brainwashing her mind. She is totally blank and blindly following them even they are expecting wrong. 4. I dont want divorce, how can i convince court ? 5. If I say yes for mutual divorce, how much I need to pay ? 6. After she sent me first notice, we used to go for movie , OYO , birthday celebrations , outside dinner etc. I am fed up and i can't give my hard earned money to her family just for sake of these silly things. I have accepted all her family's conditions : 1. Not to leave Pune. 2. No outside birthday celebrations 3. Our home must be nearby their home and i shifted. 4. They wanted Maid and now we are 4 people in our home and most of the work done by my mother and maid. There are many small things which i agreed upon and if just i did not go to take her back, her elder brother and sister brain washed her and she did not come. It's been a year now. I am helpless. Marriage is important thing in my life. From childhood we follow a good traditions. In our entire family, there is not divorce and I think it's just worst thing. Please help me. Any lawyer from Pune who can help me to get her back can contact me on +[deleted]