Plz guide me regarding my case .

I was married in September 2017 , it was a love marriage. After few months my in laws started manipulating my husband and believed them only . In June 2018 my mil sent me to my parents home as I was not well and I should rest there . After that my husband never came to take me , and in September 2018 filed rcr section 9 case upon me stating I have psychological disorder still want har to join me . After that we settled our conflicts out of court and I went back to my in laws accepted their condition that I should leave my post graduation and take up role of a house wife only but my husband didn’t withdraw case . After 3 months again Same things repeated manipulation of his family and their interference even our personal matters , my brother in law even threaten me many time that he would throw us out , fargati de duga Dono ko , etc my mil would treat me as I’m not daughter-in-law of house she was being nice in front of all and would I’ll treat me when alone . When I complain about it to my husband he denied this allegations and even slapped me many times . I was shattered coz I was having no proof of my innocence I called my parents at mid night to take me home . They came and requested my bil to came Day after to discuss the matter as it was not right to discuss at that time but they never responded. Even my parents try to settle the matter through the relative but they denied to sit. And talk .. Then after few months my husband started calling me and requested to meet me and settled things he started to meet me at my parents home for about 4 months but he said that his family should not know about him reunion as he don’t want any gossip. Then in 2020 I went back to in laws home agreeing my in laws conditions 1. I will not study or do any job . 2. I will cut all ties with my parents 3. My husband will not give any financial help 4 . I will not have any social life with my frds Which I agreed to save my home and it was agin out of court settlement but my husband never withdraw the case of rcr section 9 from court . After spending few days normally my husband went for tour his family again started manipulating him that don’t give food to his mother and don’t do any work to which he believed resulting he again hit me this time I went to women cell and complain about them now my husband have said in counselling that he don’t wasn’t to live with me . Plz guide me what to in next counselling as I want to live with him but can’t live with his family as same thing will be repeated. Can I show proof against my husband of adultery which I have some chats with his friends and recording with a girl .