Mental harrasment by my wife and inlaws

Hi, I am married from last three years and I am being mentally harrassed by wife on very small and tiny things and over and above that her family always supports her in this and never listens to me and always say bad words to me. We also have a daughter now and she takes her along with her everytime to her paternal home whenever there is an argument and her family comes immediately and says ok come along with us to home. They never ask what happened. And if I try to explain this is a very small thing then they say whatever and then they say bad words to me and my family. And after that when she goes to her home own her own and then she tortures me sitting there that u dont care for daughter and my family is taking car of her. I will tell one incident, it was my birthday and my wife was travelling to europe from her office. So we(me, my mother, brother and my father) to have dinner and then we will drop my wife to airport after having dinner. So we went to a south indian restaurant, my wife said I want to have a pizza, so we both went out to get a pizza and my other family members stayed at the restaurant. So when we reached Dominos I just checked that I have forgotten my wallet. Then my wife started shouting that how can u do this. She shouted in dominos, then at the south indian restaurant in front of all crowd. And till the airport cried and tried to convince my wife and said sorry but she dint talk to me, same happned at the airport, I cried all the time but she was same. I said its my bday plz dont do like this but nothing. And then when she was finally entering the gates I was crying and that time also she dint talk to me and went away. This small incident will give u an hint abt my wife's nature and her family always supports her. And these kind of incidents happen one or the other day and I am being mentally harrased by her. I have lot of more incidents like these which I want to share.