Proof of service legal seperation fraud

2009 my mother in-law dies, fear his inheritance may be split because my inheritance was used to buy our home he gets creative. Has me arrested, victim his son, witness his cousin who came all from Texas to California for the funeral but stay's behind & saw me vandalize his son's truck. the deputy who writes the report close friend of 30 years. My husband then files for divorce with a restraining order, I don't fight it I want out. But he uses the arrest over me- I'm facing 2 years in prison felony vandalism. My alibi the camera at the courthouse filing a restraining order @the time the witness claims she saw me. 10 months facing trial then my husband has his son in-law come forward; statement he did it by accident but informed victim,payments for damages made BUT DATE OCCURRED INFORMED RECEIVED PAYMENT BEFORE VICTIM FILED CHARGES- TRUTH AN INSURANCE CLAIM PAID NOT SON IN LAW. My charges dropped my husband drops the restraining order I want to see my kids- we both had attorney's but nothing done- he wants to reconcile so we both dropped our attorney's- so I believed? August 4th 2019 at about 5 am I read a document dated 12/29/2010 falsified proof of services substitute attorney-he was now self represented was filed- but not for divorce legal separation. I never knew I also never knew his brother established an LLC investment in 2002 and $45,000 check from husbands workers comp that included back pay and diminished future earnings went directly into that investment as our investment my husband has already received and reinvested later to claim legally separated. we have a flood in 2005 the insurance pays $120,000 my husband repairs but our master bathroom never done and he lied about cost- he invested more with his brother. tax filings done 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012 married joint I find out October 2019 he started filing married separated 2013 I had no idea. 2011 his brother the relator owner of investment company with my husband my brother my daughter ambush me- my home foreclosing & 2005 IRS tax levy prevents refinancing- to be sold in the morning on the courthouse steps. I bought my husband out it was my home?after finding $36,000 gone from joint account & $52,000 second mortgage my signature forged I agreed not file charges but a contract written the house was mine he took his equity- I trusted my family with my documents, they cancelled investing and kept my contract. 2 shoe boxes of cash $100,000 each and a contract all financial resolved was offered I ripped up the contract. Save the asset the debt remains, 7/7/11 sold my home 01/20/19 find out my home is still mine 05/2019 discover several criminal cases on my husband assumed names felony convictions plea bargains no jail and a secret criminal relationship with the family I trusted who invested & ends up with my cash from the sale. 4 workers comp 5 civil injury settlements my husband receives 06/2019 I began saving all messaes from spouse to email I have proof of fraud. hidden assets