Avoiding Maintenence

I need your suggestions. I have two cases one in Bangalore and Davanagere. My wife filed maintenance case and RCR in her native. I filed RCR in Bangalore. In between IA was ordered in Chitradurga for Rs 15,000 as they collected my salary slip. We have challenged this in High Court and we got Stay provided to deposit Rs.1,42,000. The RCR in Bangalore went in favour of me and order also executed and my wife is not ready to return and asking Rs. 20,00,000 for settlement. The RCR even in Davanagere also said to take her home and lead happy life. We called her to come back infront of judge. She refused telling she has threat in my home from my parents. She is Engineering graduate in Electronics. She is working as teacher but she is hiding and its difficult to find out. She is well educated and has prior experience of 3 years in reputed MNC. We bought to notice of court but didnt help as she is not employed now. I have travelled overseas. I couldn't attend the arguments as project are in difficult stages here. I have POA(Power of Attorney) given to my father. This is SPA. However my advocate in Davanagere is telling we cant give SPA for Criminal misc. cases and I need to be present in person. But the Bangalore advocate is telling we can appoint SPA for this case. I am at very confusing state.     We have applied for Divorce in Bangalore. They are putting objection now. Opposite lawyer has demanded 50K or 50L as settlement infront of judge telling the husband is leading lavish life and his income is >15L. I have parents, brother and sister. My brother is not married and sister too. Please suggest what should I do?. I dont have children. How much they can award maintenance if salary is 3L?. She stayed in my home for total of 1.2 Months. She has put case in her home town, that is number 1 district in Karnataka terms of such cases. His brother is also divorced. Their whole family is behind for money. I am worried if I get any justice as its favor of women's.