Request for Guidance-Divorce case

Dear Sir/Mam, This is Saisivan from Chennai, I have filled divorce case in the year 2015 on the Grounds of Cruelty Reasons listed: 1) My Spouse's (Respondent) aggressive behaviour of frequent Suicidal/kill threatening for petty things 2) For simple causes throw off of Mangal sudhra 3) Criminal attempt of Kidnapping my only Son, fake series of Police complaints in various local police stations & attempts to give Adoption to unknown. 4) Major interference on my profession. With hold of my educational documents. 5) Misleading bank Officials by fake identity to operate my mother’s bank locker. Take away of my Savings amount at concern agency without my knowledge even after receiving timely various sums. 6) Abusing every time filthy way towards me, my parents & family members & send out of me & all my family members from own house(We all staying in rental home now). frequent desertion of matrimonial home etc., Subsequent to my Divorce petition, after one year the Respondent has filled Domestic violence in other relevant court-against me & my mother containing false statements which is to said to be fake. Evidences available are submitted along with Divorce & Domestic violence petition & counters, however my both these cases (Divorce & Domestic violence) are still pending for 5+years in the Hon'ble Courts. Present proceeding is monthly two times appearance of Hearing in both the courts, however there were no trial or enquiry is happening till now. May i please know: 1) What are the possible causes for delay in trial 2) What would be the next stage of my Case 3) How long will it take for final judgment Kindly share your valuable suggestions Thanks n Regards, Chokkalingam